The Youth Fairy Salisbury

The Youth Fairy Salisbury A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults.

I'm Melanie, therapist at The Youth Fairy, a team of Solution Focused therapists dedicated to improving the emotional well-being and mental health of children and teenagers suffering from anxiety, stress, anger, emotional regulation and low confidence. I offer a 1 hour consultation (free) face to face in Amesbury or online, to discuss your child's situation and how I can help them regain more emotional control and see them feeling happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time. As well as helping young people make these changes, I’m passionate that educating them on their mental health, which is such an important and essential part of the change process. By empowering them with this knowledge, we can help young people to develop more positive, healthy habits for life. In the consultation, I’ll explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms, the role their emotions play and how to stride forward positively. This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and how to promote more mentally healthy behaviours in the future. This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). I will work with your child in a solution focused way, which means they won’t have to focus on the past in great detail or revisit traumatic events to make really positive changes. The therapeutic process should feel very rewarding, positive and young people enjoy and look forward to coming to the sessions. You’ll also get my relaxation audio downloads to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. You can feel reassured your child is in an experienced and safe pair of hands; before becoming a therapist I've worked with vunerable children for over 25 years in schools ranging from inner city London to rural primary schools as a qualified teacher and headteacher

I have specialised in supporting children with emotional and pastoral needs including introducing community well-being programmes for children and their families. These opportunities have given me a number of experiences working with children with a range of needs. I thoroughly enjoy helping children, young people and their families. I hold an Enhanced DBS certificate, am fully insured and I am also a member of the following professional bodies:

National Board for Modern Psychotherapy (NBMP)

Association For Solutions Focused Hypnotherapy (AFSFH)

National Council for Hypnotherapy (NCH)

Complementary & Natural Healthcare Council (CNHC)

⭐️ Did you know?I offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how I can help them regain more...
03/12/2024

⭐️ Did you know?

I offer a free 1-hour consultation to discuss your child’s situation and how I can help them regain more emotional control and feel happier, calmer and much more confident in a relatively short amount of time.✨

🧡 I passionately believe that educating children about their mental health is an essential part of the change process, so I will explain to you and your child how the brain works to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms.

🧚‍♀️ The Youth Fairy has a series of programmes that can help and inspire.

🧚‍♀️ I work with & help a range of ages of children from primary school age right up to teens & young adults.

Head on over to my website to find out more...

www.theyouthfairy.com

✨ Hello December.It's seeing the joy in childrens faces as things become more Christmassy 🥰 Is there anything better?Wha...
02/12/2024

✨ Hello December.

It's seeing the joy in childrens faces as things become more Christmassy 🥰 Is there anything better?

What’s the most most magical part of December for you?

✨ The nativity?
✨ Decorating the tree together?
✨ Seeing the open their presents?

Let us know!

Sharing some  ...Couldn't have said this better myself. 🧚 Leave a ❤️ if you agree!
28/11/2024

Sharing some ...

Couldn't have said this better myself. 🧚

Leave a ❤️ if you agree!

⭐️ NEW ON THE BLOG ⭐️ This week’s blog comes by popular demand from many parents specifically asking for ways of helping...
27/11/2024

⭐️ NEW ON THE BLOG ⭐️
This week’s blog comes by popular demand from many parents specifically asking for ways of helping their child or teen with screen addiction.

As a parent, you’re probably no stranger to the inevitable fall outs screen time can bring – the nagging to get your child off the screen in time for dinner, the arguments about them spending too much time on screens (particularly before bed), and the anger outbursts that ensue if we try to enforce some healthy boundaries around screen time and gaming (the kids that is of course, not us…).

You’re not alone!

Back when we were our children’s age, screen time just wasn’t really a thing like it is now. And so, it can be really difficult to understand our children’s (perhaps almost obsessive) need for screens.

The truth is, our children are growing up in a world we can’t really fully understand since life now is completely different to the one we lived in at their age. There are now so many pressures for our young people that sit outside of the usual, every day challenges. On top of school, exams and general peer pressure like we experienced, our younger generation now have to contend with:

✨ The pressure to look ‘picture perfect’ on Instagram
✨ Being cool enough to keep up with the latest Tik Tok trends (and the fact we’ve used the word ‘cool’ means we’re probably not!)
✨ The instant gratification experienced from gaming or getting a new ‘follower’ or ‘like’
✨ Photographs that get published online that leave a footprint for pretty much forever (gone are the days where we can hide our embarrassing teenage haircuts in the back of a cupboard somewhere never to be seen again!)
✨ The expectation from peers to spend hours gaming online to keep in the ‘clique’ – there is such a social element to gaming now that it is easy for our children to feel left behind.
✨ And much more!

Head over to The Parent Pad to discover why is screen time so addictive and how to stop screen addiction in children.

Take a read here 👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/screen-addiction/

Looking for a place to find helpful tips, advice, insights and resources, to help you support your child’s well-being......
26/11/2024

Looking for a place to find helpful tips, advice, insights and resources, to help you support your child’s well-being....

Here it is! The Parent Pad ⭐️

Every week a great new blog - previous weeks topics have included...

🧚‍♀️ Spotlighting: Panic Attacks and Coping Mechanisms for Children
🧚‍♀️ Anti-bullying week
🧚‍♀️ Spotlighting eating disorders

Head on over and take a read

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/the-parent-pad/

✨You...Wonderful You ✨
25/11/2024

✨You...

Wonderful You ✨

A hug can speak a thousand words... 🥰
21/11/2024

A hug can speak a thousand words... 🥰

🧚 ON THE BLOGSpotlighting Eating DisordersThis week we're shining the spotlight on the sensitive topic of eating disorde...
20/11/2024

🧚 ON THE BLOG
Spotlighting Eating Disorders

This week we're shining the spotlight on the sensitive topic of eating disorders. Here at the Youth Fairy, we would like to highlight the role that talking therapy, and specifically the role that Solution Focused Therapy can play, in recovery from, or prevention of an eating disorder.

We will look at understanding the different types of eating disorders and coping with eating disorders with Solution Focused therapy, including how we can help your young one to:

✨ Build confidence
✨ Focus on the positive things in their life
✨ Build resilience
✨ Build frustration tolerance
✨ Build up their feelings of self-worth
✨ Imagine an outcome when the eating disorder isn’t present
✨ Recognise what they can do to increase positive, mentally healthy brain function
✨ Gain a healthy sense of control in their lives

Bearing in mind that eating disorders are a serious mental illness which needs medical attention, we’d like to look at how complimentary therapy, and especially Solution Focused Therapy (like all the Youth Fairies use), can play a positive part, alongside other professionals, in helping your young person to feel better.

Head on over to the Parent Pad to read this week’s blog in full for further information and how The Youth Fairy can help.
Take a read here: 👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/spotlighting-eating-disorders/

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support yo...
19/11/2024

🧚 My SMILE for Parents programme is designed to help you regain a greater sense of emotional control and will support you in making those positive changes in thoughts and behaviours you need to feel calmer, happier and much more confident as a person – and as a parent.

And the great thing is our Solution Focused approach means you don’t need to excessively talk about past problems, your perceived ‘parenting mistakes’ (even Youth Fairies have felt that completely unhelpful parent guilt) or trauma in order to get you back on top of things and feeling like yourself again.

Can help to...

✔️ Boost feelings of overall happiness
✔️ Cope calmly with everyday situations
✔️ Feel in control of reactions, thoughts & emotions
✔️ Rediscover your confidence & self-recognition
✔️ Develop a more positive outlook
✔️ Interact more positively with others
✔️ Cope better with life challenges
✔️ Improve connection with your child(ren)
✔️ Improve sleep problems

✨ Discover more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/smile-for-parents/

🧚‍♂️No Monday blues here!Pass it on and let's keep those Positive thoughts going... ✨
18/11/2024

🧚‍♂️No Monday blues here!

Pass it on and let's keep those Positive thoughts going... ✨

Kindness - the most important thing to teach our children to be. Don’t you agree ❤️
14/11/2024

Kindness - the most important thing to teach our children to be.

Don’t you agree ❤️

⭐️On the blog ⭐️ Anti-Bullying Week: How to Teach Inclusivity to ChildrenAll too often, children and young people suffer...
13/11/2024

⭐️On the blog ⭐️
Anti-Bullying Week: How to Teach Inclusivity to Children

All too often, children and young people suffer in silence at the hands of bullying so here at The Youth Fairy, we are doing our bit to raise awareness with this week’s blog.

💥 The topic of bullying can bring up a whole host of emotions for parents. It is something we all worry about happening to our children and perhaps it has even happened to you and so, it brings a different kind of anxiety.

💥 Perhaps even more devastating, is the news our child may be the one doing the bullying.

💥 Whatever the scenario, emotions are likely to be running high for all involved.

So, as parents, what is the best course of action to take? Head over to The Parent Pad to take a read to find our top tips.

👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/anti-bullying-week-2023/

🧚 My Schools programme offers a number of options that support the mental health education and wellbeing of children and...
12/11/2024

🧚 My Schools programme offers a number of options that support the mental health education and wellbeing of children and teachers.

Areas I can have a positive impact on include attendance, behaviour, performance (exam, sports, stage), engagement, retention, general wellbeing and I can tailor the programme to focus on your school’s needs at any given time.

At a glance...

✔️ Primary, Secondary and Post-16
✔️ Group wellbeing programmes for students
✔️ Group wellbeing programmes for teachers
✔️ One to One Therapy for students
✔️ CPD for teachers & pastoral staff
✔️ Workshops for parents on children’s mental health
✔️ Understand the neuroscience of mental health
✔️ Outcome measuring software to evidence impact
✔️ Happy, confident, motivated, resilient pupils & staff

Find out more here

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/strive/

Ahead of Wednesdays  ...Always remember the importance of kindness in Child Development 🧡www.theyouthfairy.com
11/11/2024

Ahead of Wednesdays ...

Always remember the importance of kindness in Child Development 🧡

www.theyouthfairy.com

🌱 Helping them to grow.What was the best parenting advice ever given to you?👇👇👇
07/11/2024

🌱 Helping them to grow.

What was the best parenting advice ever given to you?

👇👇👇

⭐️ On the Blog ⭐️ The mental health charity mind estimates that around 1 in every 100 people in England are diagnosed wi...
06/11/2024

⭐️ On the Blog ⭐️ The mental health charity mind estimates that around 1 in every 100 people in England are diagnosed with Panic Disorder every week. This is a startling figure and, discouragingly, is a mental health condition that is on the rise.

🧠 We all experience feelings of anxiety and panic from time to time, in response to stress or significant life events. Panic Disorder, however, is a form of anxiety disorder where an individual will have bouts of extreme anxiety, panic, or intense fear, frequently and seemingly for no apparent cause. It can be extremely frightening for an individual suffering from the disorder and the feeling of being ‘out of control’ can become so overwhelming that a person may avoid certain situations or stop leaving home altogether in an attempt to prevent a panic or anxiety attack. Sadly, this desire to feel more in control can start a negative chain of events that only serves to exacerbate the condition.

🧠 Whilst anxiety disorders are the most common mental health condition in childhood, Panic Disorder is rare in young children and, in most cases, begins during the teenage years. This is thought to be linked to changes that are happening in the brain at this key stage of development. Panic Disorder may occur in response to significant life events or extreme stress in a young person’s life. It can manifest in such a way that it causes significant disruption to an individual’s day-to-day life, resulting in panic attacks in response to everyday stressful events, particularly those that place more pressure on a young person, such as exams.

The symptoms of a panic attack might include:

👉 Breathing uncontrollably
👉 Feeling of not being able to catch a breath
👉 A racing or pounding heart
👉 Sweating
👉 Shaking or trembling uncontrollably
👉 A tightness in the throat
👉 Feeling dizzy or light-headed
👉 Feeling very cold or very hot
👉 An uncomfortable feeling or pain in the stomach or chest
👉 Nausea
👉 A sudden urge to use the toilet
👉 Ringing in the ears
👉 Feeling as if your mind is not connected to your body, often described as an odd feeling of being disconnected from your surroundings.

So, if any of this sounds familiar, head on over to the Parent Pad and read our blog in full to find out:

✨ How panic attacks are caused, including how the stress or panic response is activated in the brain.
✨ How to support your child with panic attacks or feelings of anxiety.
✨ Strategies you can try with your child at home.
✨ Where to go for further help, information and guidance.

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/panic-attacks-in-children/

[ Source: https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/my-feelings/panic-attacks?gclid=CjwKCAiAgvKQBhBbEiwAaPQw3OP9OQgN_MLoYC3L956NfrdnFFsWSrPQ5ixHkG_NV0B1ykegWBzsLhoC0NkQAvD_BwE ]

🧚 The Youth Fairy SPARKLE programme is designed to give children that extra superhero confidence to perform at their ver...
05/11/2024

🧚 The Youth Fairy SPARKLE programme is designed to give children that extra superhero confidence to perform at their very best when it counts. Areas we can help with include exam confidence, stage and sports performance, mindset blocks and public speaking.

It can help to...

✔️ Boost self-confidence and self-esteem
✔️ Confident mindset for performance; sport, stage, exams
✔️ Develop a positive 'can do' attitude
✔️ Discover own strengths and capabilities
✔️ Improved learning and memory capacity
✔️ Remain focused and confident under pressure
✔️ Develop resilience; bounce back, let things go
✔️ See challenge as an opportunity for growth
✔️ Optimise sleep quality

Find out more about the Sparkle programme here 👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/programmes/sparkle/

Let's Monday 🙌Wishing you all a great week. 🧚
04/11/2024

Let's Monday 🙌

Wishing you all a great week. 🧚

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