16/01/2026
Many parents find it hard to accept help from their children, even when they clearly need support.
Being helped by family can feel like a loss of independence or a reminder that roles have shifted, especially for someone who has always been the one looking after others. When help comes from someone outside the family, it often feels easier, more neutral and less emotionally loaded.
For many families, this is actually a relief. Support from someone else can ease tension, protect relationships and help a parent keep their confidence, while children can return to being sons or daughters rather than carers.
To explore support that helps protect independence and family relationships, speak with our Scarborough & Ryedale team on 01723 263263 or visit homeinstead.co.uk/scarborough-ryedale.