11/06/2025
I felt frustrated, pi**ed off, and annoyed with myself....this happened last week for me.
I know what my body likes and what she wants, but I couldn't get "there"
Over the last three and a half years, I have discovered SO much about my pleasure, my body, likes and dislike, and I naturally think that every time I play, I'm gonna get "the result"
There is so much pressure about the O, that it's a race, something that has to be achieved, if you dont have one, there's something wrong.
Question..?
What if we took the pressure off getting there and expanded our awareness around pleasure and really relaxed into the experience rather than racing to the end result?
Becoming present with myself and my pleasure, taking the time to drop into my body instead of thinking, makes it a richer, more connective experience.