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19/03/2024

Whatever you’re up to this week - enjoy 😊

16/03/2024

The first product is done ✅

With time to spare with my time off, I’ve worked on the DREAM 💭

FINALLY starting those heartfelt products that I wanted other people to have. Using my lifelong knowledge and creating something people have asked for too!

For now I’ve launched (quietly at this point) a FREE Guide for those people who want to create their first online business or want ideas of what to do.

IT ALSO benefits those that have not had much luck with their online products and need to see what they might have missed.

The steps are clear for beginners but thorough for those who want to improve too!

Anyway, if you want “The Ultimate Digital Product Guide 2024” feel free to grab it here …

Stan | Linksite

23/02/2024

Happy Friday 😃
Quick sandwich in the park before next job!

What’s happening your end? ⚡️ 🥪 🦆

07/02/2024

So today has me going in for a health check on ECG, Blood Check and X Ray!

These things make you pause and think. Or at least it does for me!

Hopefully sort out a daft ni**le but good to also start some better habits to prevent any future issues!

Anyone else feel they need to make some changes in their habits and routine?

28/01/2024

Sunday is a funny old day for those that aren’t retired…

You might have a slight anxiety or boredom for the next same old work week ahead. 🥱

While also looking forward to the last day of funky old fun (more on that later when you see our post of what we’re doing today!). 🤩

So I’m up (awake but in bed) already being as quiet as possible, trying not to disturb the lovely (she looks so cute asleep) Steph Faye

Anyway … Back to the story … some of you will be awake as you just can’t bloody sleep!! Let me know if that’s you. By the way I hope you’ve tried meditation videos and music - failing that, listen to my podcasts and you’ll be asleep in seconds 😉

Others, like me, will wake early because you’re wanting to seize the day (ok I’m also hungry!!) and get plenty done. Making sure each day is eventful or at the very least satisfying in what you got done (personal, family or work improvement) or what you did (the fun and wind downs).

Today will be a very nice mix of wind down, fun and progress. Just as I like it.

If this doesn’t make full sense yet - I’m still to have coffee!!

Anyway good morning early risers. Let me know who you are.

And good morning later to the ones who make the most of a long sleep. 🛌

P.S. No proof reading, just waffle and send!

20/01/2024

Our beautiful youngest has instantly got her smile back after we broke some AMAZING news to her.

For months now she’s been down and unwell with anxiety and not having the best life that she deserves, in order to follow her dreams.

Last night we made her dreams come true (and that smile in the photo is her reaction as we handed her a letter explaining what was about to happen).

So, you might ask, what WAS in that life changing letter? …

Being officially diagnosed with autism, the school she was at not only refused to put in place some really simple requirements (REALLY small changes that would have made a huge difference), but the last straw was that three teachers took her into a room, stood over her and forced her to look at her, repeat what they want her to do and other things that make someone with autism never want to return. Basically things that made her lose all trust in the school and teachers.

For a while now in the background this “fight” with the school and governors has got us down (me and Steph Faye) and has affected our time and jobs as well as our mental health and ability to focus during the week as the school was constantly in our backs demanding what they could not support us with.

So we’ve been pondering the reality (pros and cons) of an alternative solution or place.

And after looking at at all the pros and cons, costs and time needed, legal requirements and commitments, we realised that not only is this option allows her to reach much more potential, but is also relaxing and much better for her life skills, academic catch up, social interaction and also fun!

That option, which we described in her letter as “you can now spread your wings and soar” … is that we have both decided together to deregister her from the school system (and follow the official Learning Authority guidelines) is …

Home Education
(Or Home schooling)

🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

At first I thought this meant sitting in her bedroom on Google!! But I was quick to learn, given that there are 2000 kids already home schooled in Sheffield alone, that it’s a huge learning resource with real skills (as well as the maths and English required from the LA guidelines).

So there’s educational activities, trips, meetups, professional 1-1 home tutoring (of course this is also needed) and many more options in many more topics that school cannot provide.

So rather than learning nothing (due to resisting attendance!!) and staying in bad health as a result, this beautiful girl is now overnight a different person already. She already started eating well and has looked at her new topics of study starting Monday.

We’re on the community groups getting all the advice and working though the ideal timetable to meet guidelines and her interest.

Here goes a better life for us all.

Celebration coming up 🎈🥳🧡✔️

15/01/2024

Imagine having to find an ADDITIONAL £7k over what you make on average in just SIX WEEKS!!!!

Well I got financially tested 6 weeks ago when I realised I needed to find £5k (which then rose to £7k!!) in my business for today!

Thankfully I have a daily cashflow spreadsheet which goes ahead in time. This realisation happened after a series of mad events and I didn’t want to touch another loan ever (that’s now my plan).

I admit I was scared of this challenge at first and wanted to throw the towel in, especially give. Xmas was coming.

But I can up with a plan and also pushed myself HARDER THAN EVER to ensure all calls were returned, existing customers messaged and sent upsell offers (where applicable), long hours worked, even Saturdays!! (Not worked weekends in years!!).

And even in the last few days this goal was close but still looking around £1000 away based on card payment clearance. But thankfully I then convinced people to use bank transfers instead.

Literally happened in the nick of time and it shows that hard work pays off.

My body has been crippled from the extra stress and efforts (worst arthritis pain ever!) and breathing and other issues, all of which I’m healing from today. But I did it!!

I want to thank Steph Faye for being a motivation and putting up with me working round the clock at this.

Also Darren Galvin for listening to me panic at the start of this 6 weeks and basically saying this can be done.

Now I’m prepared for the future and feel I’m now settled and rightly deserve my place here in Sheffield.

So I have a bigger aim now and my competitors aren’t gonna like it 😉

Might as well keep on while this winning formula is working 😉

And yes - I’m having a big review of my health today, many things ordered and in place to make sure my body doesn’t suffer during a big long push again! 💪🧡

12/01/2024

The calmer you are clearer you think

Move with strategy NOT emotion ✨✨

Happy Friday

12/01/2024

Morning thoughts

It’s Friday you’ve made it through the week

If you’ve had a fantastic week well done and cheer yourself

If you’ve struggled this week that’s ok you’ve survived all the days you maybe thought you couldn’t so cheer yourself

How ever your weeks gone cheer yourself and know your closer to greater days

One step at a time one day at a time closer to where you want to be ♥️

I’ve had a challenging week but also a lot of learning moments so meditation has been my therapy calming the mind everyday works wonders for coping and winning 🙏🏻✨✨

08/01/2024

Monday thoughts….

Smile today

Say something nice about yourself

Be kind

Don’t compare yourself to someone else you are not them! You are uniquely you!

Don’t let fear stand in your way….it’s false evidence appearing real!🙌🏻

Happy Monday 😀

06/01/2024

We were put on this earth to thrive not just survive

It’s our birth right to live a life of abundance

You have permission to win

Let’s win together 🙌🏻✨

06/01/2024

Good morning

Things will change when your look at your diet and lifestyle and by that I mean it’s not just about food it’s what you watch what you listen to and who you listen to….

Check how your diet is and rid the junk this year!

Remove the sluggish energy and watch how you flourish! It’s ok to say No to grow 👋♥️

Have a lovely Saturday guys

Love and light

05/01/2024

Happy Friday everyone ♥️

Please feel free to invite people you may know to the group (people who you feel would benefit )

The more people we can spread some love and light to the better!

This group will grow into a lovely positive community where we can shine together!

If we can help just one person we have done our job! We aim to help and inspire as many people as possible by showing them that anything is possible with the right mindset and desire to be the best version of themself

Love Steph & Simon