M Downs and Associates

M Downs and Associates High quality specialist psychological services including therapy, training, supervision and medico-legal reports.

Providers of medico legal reports and psychological services.

It’s time ⏰Today is Time to Talk Day — a reminder that conversations about mental health have the power to change lives....
05/02/2026

It’s time ⏰

Today is Time to Talk Day — a reminder that conversations about mental health have the power to change lives.
Talking openly helps break down stigma, reduces feelings of isolation, and reminds us that we don’t have to face things alone. Whether it’s a quick check-in with a friend, sharing how you’re really feeling, or simply listening without judgement, every conversation matters.

Let’s make space for honesty, compassion, and connection - not just today, but every day.

05/02/2026

It’s time ⏰

Today is Time to Talk Day — a reminder that conversations about mental health have the power to change lives.
Talking openly helps break down stigma, reduces feelings of isolation, and reminds us that we don’t have to face things alone. Whether it’s a quick check-in with a friend, sharing how you’re really feeling, or simply listening without judgement, every conversation matters.

Let’s make space for honesty, compassion, and connection - not just today, but every day.

Today is Time to Talk Day — a reminder that conversations about mental health have the power to change lives. Talking op...
05/02/2026

Today is Time to Talk Day — a reminder that conversations about mental health have the power to change lives.

Talking openly helps break down stigma, reduces feelings of isolation, and reminds us that we don’t have to face things alone. Whether it’s a quick check-in with a friend, sharing how you’re really feeling, or simply listening without judgement, every conversation matters.

Let’s make space for honesty, compassion, and connection — not just today, but every day. 💬

If February feels like a slog, there’s a reason. Winter takes a toll on our bodies, minds, relationships and wallets. Yo...
03/02/2026

If February feels like a slog, there’s a reason. Winter takes a toll on our bodies, minds, relationships and wallets. You’re not imagining it — and you’re not alone.

Attachment theory gives language to things many of us have felt for years but never understood.Why closeness can feel so...
01/02/2026

Attachment theory gives language to things many of us have felt for years but never understood.

Why closeness can feel soothing… or suffocating.
Why we crave reassurance but struggle to ask for it.
Why conflict feels unbearable or why we shut down and disappear.

These patterns didn’t come from nowhere.

They formed in early relationships where our nervous systems learned:

Is it safe to need?
Will someone come when I call?
Do I have to handle this alone?

Anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant (disorganised), and secure attachment styles aren’t personality flaws they’re adaptive responses to the care we received.

And the most hopeful part?
Attachment styles are not fixed.

Through awareness, therapy, and emotionally safe relationships, we can learn new ways of relating — ones that include:

• clearer communication
• healthier boundaries
• greater emotional safety
• more compassion for ourselves and others

You learned how to survive connection — and you can learn how to feel safe in it too.

If this resonates, hit save.

Which do you think is the most@common attachment style?





In today’s  - Dr Downs was interviewed by James Foxall about Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD, as part of his coverag...
23/01/2026

In today’s - Dr Downs was interviewed by James Foxall about Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD, as part of his coverage of the UK’s five great drives.

SAD which is characterised by low mood during the colder darker months, is said to affect one in 20 adults in the UK.

While there is still a lot we don’t know about the causes of SAD, it is more likely to affect those with preexisting mental health difficulties such as depression, bipolar or trauma.

Getting outside, increasing our Vitamin D intake, spending time in beautiful surroundings, prioritising interests and hobbies and spending time connecting with others, can all help to lift our mood. However help is available should you experience persistent low mood, hopelessness or lack of interest in things you previously enjoyed, that start to impact your daily life. You should contact your GP as a first point of call, to explore what support and help is available.

If you’d like more information about how our services can assist, call us on 01143035053 or email us today.



Blue Monday 💙 Today is often labelled the “most difficult day of the year” - whether that resonates with you or not, it’...
19/01/2026

Blue Monday 💙

Today is often labelled the “most difficult day of the year” - whether that resonates with you or not, it’s a good reminder to pause and check in. Let’s take a look at the real reason behind blue Monday ….





Christmas can bring connection, but it can also stir up grief, pressure, family dynamics, and old wounds. If this season...
17/12/2025

Christmas can bring connection, but it can also stir up grief, pressure, family dynamics, and old wounds. If this season feels heavier than expected, you’re not alone — and seeking therapy can be a powerful act of care. 🎄

Ifcall us on 01143035053, or send us an email at info@mdownsandassociates.co.uk to find out more, and make 2026 your year.

If you're feeling overwhelmed this Christmas, know you're not alone. We explore the extra unpaid labour that piles on du...
11/12/2025

If you're feeling overwhelmed this Christmas, know you're not alone. We explore the extra unpaid labour that piles on during the holidays….. Link to blog in our bio 🌲

Su***de Prevention Month: Break the myths to break the silence September is su***de prevention month. Su***de is complex...
08/09/2025

Su***de Prevention Month: Break the myths to break the silence

September is su***de prevention month. Su***de is complex, and sadly many misconceptions still surround it.

One of the most harmful myths is that you shouldn’t ask someone if they’re suicidal — or that you can’t help if they are. These beliefs can prevent people from receiving the support they need.

As Professor Rory O’Connor (Health Psychology, University of Glasgow) explains:

“Evidence shows asking someone if they’re suicidal can protect them. They feel listened to, and hopefully less trapped. Their feelings are validated, and they know that somebody cares about them. Reaching out can save a life.”

How you can help?
• Check in with friends, colleagues, and loved ones.
• Listen with empathy, without judgment.
• Share resources and encourage professional support.
• Remind people they are not alone.

Talking about su***de does not cause it. But silence and stigma can make it harder for people to get the help they need.

If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available:
UK: Call Samaritans on 116 123 (free, 24/7)

Meet Gypsy, a fan of The Psychologist magazine apparently. We’re not saying she’s thinking about a DClinPsy… but we’re n...
24/07/2025

Meet Gypsy, a fan of The Psychologist magazine apparently. We’re not saying she’s thinking about a DClinPsy… but we’re not not saying it either.

Thanks to Rhiannon for bringing her in and sharing the tail wagging, fluffy joy! ❤️

✨ Great Feedback Alert! ✨ We were so pleased to receive some brilliant feedback from a recent client and we wanted to gi...
16/07/2025

✨ Great Feedback Alert! ✨

We were so pleased to receive some brilliant feedback from a recent client and we wanted to give a special shoutout to Lara, who was praised for her support during the enquiry stage. Well done, Lara!

At every step of the journey, from the very first enquiry, we're always striving to be efficient, high quality, and truly person-centred.

Feedback like this is not only lovely to hear, but it's also essential; it helps us grow, improve, and keep raising the bar.

Thank you to everyone who takes the time to share their experience with us. We're listening, and we're always looking for ways to be even better.



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