
26/09/2025
There’s a certain kind of woman I tend to work with-
She’s smart. Capable. Always thinking ahead.
She’s got lists for her lists,
and an inner voice that sounds suspiciously like a nagging headteacher.
She feels best when she’s achieving things.
When the dishwasher is unloaded, inbox cleared, shopping done.
When she’s doing what she “should” be doing.
But the moment she slows down, that voice kicks in.
“You should be doing more.”
“What have you even done today?”
“No wonder you feel behind.”
So she pushes through.
Even when her chest is tight.
Even when she can’t think straight.
Even when she’s not slept properly in days.
But here’s the thing:
Your productivity has nothing to do with your worth.
You are allowed to rest.
To move slow.
To stop altogether - and still be valuable.
Your body is not a machine.
It doesn’t need another to-do list.
It needs permission to feel safe enough to pause.
That’s what we do in my sessions.
Whether it’s through coaching, Reiki, or a blend of the two - we create space for your system to finally let go.
So you can remember how to feel calm, present, and worthy again…
Even if the laundry’s not folded.
🖤