Piece by Peace Counselling

Piece by Peace Counselling Welcome to Piece by Peace Counselling. My specialist areas are bereavement, loss, anxiety, depression, substance misuse and trauma.

I am a fully qualified therapeutic Counsellor who offers you space to listen and support with any issues you feel you have. Piece by Peace Counselling is my own private practice which is located in Solihull, West Midlands. I am a fully qualified therapeutic counsellor who offers face to face, online and telephone counselling. I combine learnt skills and tools from different counselling approaches which in turn will help you to explore and express your thoughts and emotions with the hope of creating a better understanding of self. Over the years I have worked with a wide range of many different issues. My specialist areas
include substance misuse and addictions, bereavement and loss, long term illness, palliative care, anxiety, depression and trauma.

There’s something quietly powerful about reading. In a world that moves fast and asks a lot of us, opening a book can fe...
05/03/2026

There’s something quietly powerful about reading. In a world that moves fast and asks a lot of us, opening a book can feel like permission to slow down, breathe, and step into a different pace for a while. 📚

Whether it’s getting lost in a novel, escaping into another life or place, or dipping into a book that helps you understand yourself a little more, reading offers space that many of us don’t get enough of.

✨ Fiction allows us to wander, imagine, and feel without pressure. It can help us switch off from stress, connect with emotions we didn’t realise needed attention, and sometimes even feel less alone through characters who reflect parts of our own inner world.

🧠 Self-development and therapeutic books, on the other hand, can gently open doors to insight, helping us make sense of patterns, emotions, relationships, and experiences at our own pace, in our own time.

Reading supports mental wellbeing in simple but meaningful ways. It can calm the nervous system, improve focus, build empathy, and offer language for feelings that are hard to name. For some people, a book can be the first step towards understanding themselves better, or towards recognising that support, growth, and change are possible. 💙💚

Being a teenager has never been simple, but for many young people today it can feel especially heavy. Teens are growing ...
02/03/2026

Being a teenager has never been simple, but for many young people today it can feel especially heavy.

Teens are growing up in a world of constant comparison, social media pressure, academic expectations, uncertainty about the future, and very little space to switch off. 📱

Many are trying to work out who they are while also managing expectations from school, family, friendships, and an online world that never really pauses. It’s no surprise that anxiety, low mood, overwhelm, and emotional burnout are becoming more common for teenagers.

As parents and caregivers, it can be hard to know how to help when your teen seems withdrawn, irritable, or not quite themselves. Often the most supportive thing you can offer is presence rather than solutions - listening without rushing to fix, staying curious instead of critical, and letting them know their feelings make sense can help them feel safer opening up. Small things matter too, so encouraging rest, routines, time away from screens, and reminding them that they don’t have to carry everything alone.

💙 Counselling can offer teenagers a space, supportive that is just for them. A place where there is no pressure to perform, explain things perfectly, or protect the feelings of the adults around them. It gives them the opportunity to talk openly about what they’re feeling, to understand their emotions, and to develop healthier ways of coping with stress, anxiety, and big life changes. Over time, counselling can help teens build confidence, emotional resilience and a stronger sense of self, supporting them not just now, but into adulthood.

At Piece by Peace Counselling, we understand how complex the teenage years can be, both for young people and for those who love them. Support doesn’t mean something is “wrong”, it means recognising that this stage of life can be challenging and that help is available.

💚 Reaching out can be a gentle, positive step towards better emotional wellbeing, taken piece by peace.

Self-injury is often misunderstood as attention-seeking, however it's often a coping mechanism for overwhelming emotiona...
01/03/2026

Self-injury is often misunderstood as attention-seeking, however it's often a coping mechanism for overwhelming emotional pain.

If you or someone you care about is struggling with self-harm, please know - you're not broken, and you're not alone.

Healing doesn’t have to mean stopping everything all at once or pushing yourself before you’re ready. It can begin much more gently, with feeling understood, feeling safe, and being met without judgement. Over time, it’s possible to explore what sits underneath the urge to self-harm and to begin finding kinder, safer ways of coping, at a pace that feels right for you.

💚 At Piece by Peace Counselling, we offer a confidential and supportive space where these conversations are welcome. You don’t have to explain yourself perfectly or have the right words, and you certainly don’t have to carry this on your own.

If this post resonates with you, please know that support is available, and that reaching out is a huge, positive step. 💙

Text "HELLO" to 741741 (Crisis Text Line)
Call 988 (Su***de & Crisis Lifeline)


Self-esteem isn’t about being confident all the time or feeling good about yourself every day. It’s about how you relate...
26/02/2026

Self-esteem isn’t about being confident all the time or feeling good about yourself every day. It’s about how you relate to yourself, especially on the hard days!

Low self-esteem can show up as self-criticism, people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, or feeling “not enough,” even when you’re doing your best. The good news is that self-esteem isn’t fixed - it can be gently strengthened over time.

💙 Here are a few small, supportive ways to begin:

• Notice how you speak to yourself. Would you use the same words with someone you care about?
• Challenge harsh inner criticism by asking, “Is this thought kind — or just familiar?”
• Acknowledge your efforts, not just outcomes. Showing up counts.
• Set one small boundary that protects your energy or wellbeing.
• Spend time with people or activities that help you feel accepted and at ease.

Talking therapy can also support self-esteem by helping you understand where these beliefs began, recognise unhelpful patterns, and build a more compassionate relationship with yourself.

💚 You are worthy of kindness, especially your own!

Today, one of my lovely clients surprised me with this beautiful book by Stacey McNeill AuthorIt is a wonderful read—ful...
24/02/2026

Today, one of my lovely clients surprised me with this beautiful book by Stacey McNeill Author
It is a wonderful read—full of warmth and hope—and a gentle reminder that no matter how disconnected, sad, lonely, or isolated you may feel, you are never truly alone. There is and will always be someone who cares for you 💙💚

Thank you so much to my client for such a thoughtful gift 😊

Distorted eating behaviours and diagnosed disorders are usually started from an array of different issues. For some, the...
24/02/2026

Distorted eating behaviours and diagnosed disorders are usually started from an array of different issues.

For some, these feelings and behaviours have been a way of ‘managing’ or ‘coping’. This is usually connected with intense underlying anxiety. This can be associated with a trauma or feeling like they don’t belong or fit in, they are looking for connection or a sense of security.

‘Controlling our eating’ is a way of numbing feelings and emotions, not being present in acknowledging what is going on around us, creating a different feeling state or getting out of some pain or discomfort.

Thoughts patterns and behaviours can vary depending on how long the behaviours or disorder has been present. You need to look at what your structures are, how it is carrying on and what is happening in your everyday life. You need to start to work out who you are and what your identity is without your conflicting thoughts or disorder.

💙 As people start to recover and understand their own patterns of behaviours and thoughts, their attitude towards self starts to change. You get to know yourself and feel the feelings and that when you can start to acknowledge your real self and learn to look at you in a different light. It is about falling in like and love with self and then your thoughts around eating and body image will start to change.

💚 Our downloadable booklet will provide some insight into helping you to recognise your emotional thoughts and behaviours with food and body image, whatever your age, shape and size.

💙 Get yours via our website:

https://www.piecebypeacecounselling.com/product-page/eating-disorder-self-help-workbook

Today is a reminder that support is always within reach, even in moments when it feels hardest to ask for help. 💚Helplin...
23/02/2026

Today is a reminder that support is always within reach, even in moments when it feels hardest to ask for help. 💚

Helplines exist to offer a listening ear, emotional support, and reassurance when you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, distressed, or unsure where to turn. You don’t need to be in crisis to reach out, sometimes being heard is enough to make things feel a little lighter.

💚 You are not weak for needing support.
💙 You are not alone in how you feel.
💚 Help is available, right now.

If you or someone you love is struggling, please consider reaching out to a trusted helpline or professional.

If you’d like support beyond a helpline, then counselling can also provide a safe, confidential space to explore what’s going on at your own pace.

🐶 𝐓𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫: Professional squirrel spotter, full-time good boy.Life is better with Trigger by my side, on National Love Yo...
20/02/2026

🐶 𝐓𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫: Professional squirrel spotter, full-time good boy.

Life is better with Trigger by my side, on National Love Your Pet Day and everyday! 💚💙

For many, this time of year is associated with Lent, often thought of as a period of “giving something up.” But outside ...
18/02/2026

For many, this time of year is associated with Lent, often thought of as a period of “giving something up.” But outside of religion, it can also be a meaningful opportunity to pause, reflect, and gently reassess what we want to let go of and what we’d like to nurture. 💚

This season can invite us to notice habits, patterns, or ways of being that no longer serve our wellbeing, such as constant self-criticism, people-pleasing, overworking, or carrying emotions that were never given space to be expressed.

Equally, it can be a time to consider what we might like to add more of: rest, boundaries, honesty, self-compassion, connection, or support.

Reflection doesn’t require perfection or discipline. It’s about curiosity, kindness, and allowing ourselves to move forward with a little more awareness. 💙

Research has shown that in the UK alone, approximately 1600 children and young people between the ages of 0yrs - 14yrs w...
15/02/2026

Research has shown that in the UK alone, approximately 1600 children and young people between the ages of 0yrs - 14yrs will be diagnosed with cancer each year.

Some cancers can be very hard to diagnose so it is imperative, as a parent or carer, if you feel that something isn’t quite right, ALWAYS trust your gut instinct and get it checked out. See a GP and get a blood test booked ASAP.

Today, let’s pause to honour the bravery of children facing cancer, remember those who have been lost, and hold in our hearts the families whose lives have been profoundly changed.

A childhood cancer diagnosis affects far more than physical health. It can deeply impact emotional wellbeing, mental health, relationships, and a family’s sense of safety and certainty. Parents, siblings, and caregivers often carry complex feelings, such as fear, grief, exhaustion, anger, and hope… all at once.

💙 There is no right or wrong way to cope. Whatever you are feeling is valid, and you do not have to navigate it alone.

Here are some helplines if you need a little extra emotional support. 💚

Not every child or young person finds it easy to talk to the adults in their lives. Sometimes it feels safer to speak to...
13/02/2026

Not every child or young person finds it easy to talk to the adults in their lives. Sometimes it feels safer to speak to someone outside of the family, especially when emotions feel confusing, overwhelming, or hard to put into words.

Helplines can offer children and young people a confidential space to talk, ask questions, or simply be listened to. They are there whether someone is feeling distressed, lonely, anxious, angry, or just unsure about what they’re experiencing.

Reaching out for support doesn’t mean something is “wrong.” It means a child is finding a way to cope, connect, and feel less alone.

Parents and carers can also benefit from helplines, offering reassurance, guidance, and support when you’re worried about a child’s emotional wellbeing and not sure what to do next. 💙💚

Books can be a gentle way for children to explore big feelings, recognise themselves in stories, and feel less alone in ...
12/02/2026

Books can be a gentle way for children to explore big feelings, recognise themselves in stories, and feel less alone in what they’re experiencing. 💙

Stories can open conversations that feel hard to start, give language to emotions, and remind children that their feelings matter.

These book suggestions are a small step towards supporting emotional understanding, connection, and wellbeing, at a pace that feels safe and accessible.

Sometimes, a story can say what a child can’t yet put into words. 💚

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286 Baldwins Lane
Solihull
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Tuesday 9am - 3pm
Wednesday 9am - 7pm
Thursday 10am - 7pm
Friday 10am - 8pm
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