Every Birth Matters - Doula, Hypnobirthing & Education

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Supporting women in their birth experience as a Doula or using HypnoBirthing; The Mongan Method to have a safe, easier, positive more comfortable birth.

Be mindful about what is consent!https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1HkaLCxVzh/
31/03/2026

Be mindful about what is consent!

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1HkaLCxVzh/

Forced vaginal exam = battery and assault and negligence

There was a significant decision made in the Supreme Court of Victoria last week.

A woman had been forced to have a vaginal exam when presenting at hospital. The hospital midwife had withheld access to her continuity of care midwife, birth suite and pain relief until she complied.

The court found that consent cannot be obtained under coercion and found Bendigo Health liable for battery and assault and negligence. A likely precedent in this space. The health service was ordered to pay $275K + costs.

Far too often, strong-arm tactics are used to get women to comply to vaginal exams, including refusing admission to birth suite, to water immersion, or to pain relief. Many women, advocates, lawyers and staff have been saying for a long time that this is not okay; no does in fact mean no, and a yes under coercion /= consent. The court agrees.

Let's address the unfounded rhetoric we have already heard from factions of the maternity space
- women just need to be more educated in the antenatal space. [errrh, no. Yuck. Victim blamey. Just don't digitally pe*****te someone without cosent?!]
- drs need to be more involved in conversations in the antenatal period [errr, for what purpose? No means no, whether it is to a midwife or dr. Women don't need any additional pressure applied to them before they even get to hospital].

I think all staff and services should be on notice. If thousands of women's stories to multiple maternity inquiries across the country hasn't shifted the dial, perhaps it will be the litigation payouts that will.

Thank you to the brave woman that persued this. It was just as much about her own justice as it was for every other woman that has been subjected to forced procedures during maternity "care".

01/11/2025
Did you choose to have a pool when giving birth?
20/10/2025

Did you choose to have a pool when giving birth?

Sanders J, Barlow C, Brocklehurst P, et al. Maternal and neonatal outcomes among spontaneous vaginal births occurring in or out of water following intrapartum water immersion: The POOL cohort study. BJOG 2024.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38857898/

07/10/2025

Do formula companies sabotage breastfeeding?

These bottles of formula come in a packet of 6 marketed as a ‘First Baby Milk Formula Starter Pack From Birth’.

Although it comes with a disclaimer on the box that ‘Newborn babies may take only small amounts of infant formula to start with’ what sort of message does the size of this bottle send to parents worried that their newborn is having enough of their breastmilk?

Research tells us that on average in the first 24 hours a newborn’s feed will average about 7ml...meaning this bottle is 10 TIMES larger!

For many new babies 4-5 swallows of colostrum per feed is all they need in the first 24 hours.

The formula company also advises that once opened any unused formula be disposed of within one hour meaning a lot is going to be wasted in this kit making it an expensive and non environmentally friendly option.

Birth Time Folks!!!!!!!
27/09/2025

Birth Time Folks!!!!!!!

Aspiring Midwife Practical Skills WorkshopSaturday 23rd August 2025Birmingham
12/06/2025

Aspiring Midwife Practical Skills Workshop

Saturday 23rd August 2025
Birmingham

A full practical skills day for anyone interested in Midwifery and looking to go on and practice this.

I hear people talk about thinking they were confident but quickly realised it was fake confidence. If you want to feel e...
09/06/2025

I hear people talk about thinking they were confident but quickly realised it was fake confidence.

If you want to feel empowered and confident in your birth, do it with your DOULA by your side.

01/06/2025
This is so important as often proper informed consent is never obtained!!!!!
14/05/2025

This is so important as often proper informed consent is never obtained!!!!!

If you step on the scales during a medical or midwifery appointment your BMI will be calculated and used as a screening test to determine what care you will be offered.

Yes, there are some situations in which you will need or want to do this (for instance if you want some types of medicine or surgery you won't be able to have them unless you agree to being weighed), but most often this isn't the case.

You have the right to decline to be weighed.

Plus size women may also be asked to step on the scales again in late pregnancy.

Again, it’s up to you to decide whether or not this is right for you.

Not your midwife, doctor, doula or childbirth educator, and certainly not the RCOG or NICE.

Remember that guidelines ONLY tell health professionals what to offer.

You do not have to follow any guideline or recommendation, or accept anything that isn’t right for you.

For more information, see my website and books.

You’ll find info on plus size pregnancy at https://www.sarawickham.com/plus-size-pregnancy

And info on your rights and decisions more generally at https://www.sarawickham.com/me

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