
24/04/2025
I’ve talked and worked with many women who are doing everything they can to lower their BMI so they can move forward with fertility treatment
They’re tracking their food, going to the gym, and cutting back on the things they love, yet they feel kinda stuck ... defeated
Like their body just isn’t responding the way it should
💡 But once we dig down into the nitty gritty, what I’ve found over and over again is that it’s not usually a lack of effort
It’s more often the *mindset traps* they’re caught in, the ones no one really talks about in a fertility nutrition context:
🌀 All-or-nothing thinking:
If one meal or workout doesn’t go to plan, the whole day or week feels like a write-off
🥺 Emotional eating:
Food becomes comfort when appointments don’t go well, the pregnancy test is negative, or the seemingly endless wait for help feels heavy
🎯 Perfectionism:
They think they have to get nutrition, movement, rest, life commitments etc right every day for it to count - and when they don’t, it really ramps up the negative self-talk
These patterns aren’t flaws
They’re protective
They do make sense
But they can keep you stuck in cycles that move you away from your goal of reducing your BMI and improving your fertility
💜 That’s why the work I do goes beyond meal plans!
Yes, we talk about nutrition and sustainable weight loss, especially if you’re navigating BMI barriers in fertility care
But we also look at your thoughts, beliefs and values
Your relationship with food
Your expectations of yourself
Your self-talk!
🌸 If any of this resonates, I want you to know: you’re not doing it all wrong
You just need someone to help you zoom out, reframe, and move forward with support.
💫 Comment or DM me SUPPORT and let's have a chat about how you can start feeling good again about your efforts and progress and reach your goals