12/12/2025
Dear 7 year old me,
There are a few things I’d really like you to know sweet girl. First of all, you won’t have to put up with these wonky fringes and lacey collars for very much longer, you will look back at this and giggle!
You’ll be getting very excited by now with Father Christmas on his way, even though you are not keen on the Christmas frocks which had to match with the little sister’s, I feel proud of the way you smile through this.
One day you will become the Mummy you never knew you needed and have always longed for, and in your job helping people, you will empower and guide many others to be this for themselves.
You are building something very precious within you right now as you grow up in your family, it’s called resilience and it will hold you in such good stead, as your life will at times be a bit rocky.
I know you are really lonely right now darling, but this won’t always be the case, you are loved and as you travel through life you will meet many very special people along the way, who will make up for so much.
The bad feeling you get sometimes in your tummy is something called intuition, you won’t always want to, but listening to it might just save your life.
You are not ‘mental’ nor are you ‘stupid’ or ‘too much’ you hear these words and they hurt as you know they don’t come from a loving place. One day you will become a pretty cool woman with a very big heart, helping lots of people find their smiles again.
Your Daddy turns out to be the super hero you always saw him as. His love will be the light in your darkness, and all of those snuggles with him you love so much, set you up for life.
Most of all, with all you are facing right now and will have to face in the future, know that warmth you feel inside that has always brought you comfort, is a flame that will grow ever stronger when you need it most, all you have to do is trust it, as it will get you through everything.
Love from the older you ❤️