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Deep Roots Counselling Service

Join me for a warm, welcoming session—no stuffy vibes or jargon. It’s just you, me & a cup of tea, fostering open, honest conversations.You talk & I listen.

As an accredited NCPS & BACP member, I'm fully insured & offer both online & face-to-face support.

06/02/2026

"Sometimes we don’t need advice — we just need someone to listen."

You talk. I listen.

If life feels heavy, confusing or overwhelming, you don’t have to carry it alone. In our sessions it’s just a chat between the two of us — honest, confidential and held in a safe, comfortable space where your feelings are welcomed without judgement. Whether you’re processing heartbreak, family strain, anger or guilt, I’m here to help you make sense of it and find steadiness alongside those emotions.

Why choose me?
- Warm, person-centred approach — you set the pace.
- Practical tools and compassionate reflection to help you move forward.
- Flexible appointment times, phone or video sessions to fit your life.
- Clear, professional care designed around you — not a one-size-fits-all plan.

Ready to be heard? Book a free 15-minute intro call and let’s see how we can work together. Spaces are limited — message now to secure your spot and start feeling lighter.

29/01/2026

Meet Yourself First — Build Relationships That Last.

Do you fall fast — then feel lost? Jump from one relationship to the next hoping the next person will fill the pieces? Or maybe you stay so close to someone else’s needs you forget your own?

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of us learn to love by mirror: mirroring others’ wants, fears, and rhythms until our own voice gets quiet. The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck in patterns that leave you drained, anxious, or invisible.

I help couples, young people and adults:
- Notice the patterns that pull you into rushed or dependent relationships
- Reclaim your sense of self and healthy boundaries
- Build honest communication and deeper connection — with yourself and others
- Move from reacting to choosing relationships that reflect your values

Whether you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, struggling with conflict in your couple dynamic, or supporting a teen learning how to relate — therapy can give you practical tools and a kinder, clearer path forward.

Ready to meet you — first? Book a free 15‑minute consultation and let’s talk about what you truly want from your relationships. Because when you know yourself, your relationships can finally start to feel like home.

26/01/2026

Feeling more like flatmates than partners? You’re not alone — most relationship pain comes from unmet expectations and missing skills, not a broken spouse.

As a couples counsellor I see the same pattern: each partner quietly hopes the other will provide what they lack — steadiness, admiration, guidance, intimacy — but neither has been shown how to build those things together. The result is withdrawal, frustration and a steady cooling of connection.

There’s a different way. Healthy partnership grows when both people commit to developing themselves and each other:
- Redefine leadership as calm responsibility, truthful communication and steady presence — not control.
- Support each other’s strengths instead of competing with them.
- Learn to repair conflict, stay emotionally available, and take practical steps that build trust and desire.
- Foster shared purpose so partnership becomes energising, not draining.

Change doesn’t require perfection — it requires intention and practice. When both partners focus on growth, admiration and attraction often return naturally, and the relationship becomes more resilient and alive.

If you’re ready to move from stuck to connected, I offer compassionate, practical support for couples and individuals wanting real, lasting change. Get in touch to book a short call and we’ll explore a safe, steady plan that fits your goals.

19/01/2026

Not loud - Just wrong: Naming Coercive Control.

Sometimes the thing that feels “wrong” isn’t loud — it’s a slow, quiet pressure that makes you doubt yourself.

You might notice small changes: you second‑guess decisions, find yourself scanning someone’s mood, avoid the family, friends or activities you used to love, or apologise more than you used to. Comments framed as “concern” feel caring at first, but over time your inner voice grows faint. That gentle erosion — not one big dramatic moment, but a thousand tiny shifts — can be coercive control.

If any of this rings true, you’re not imagining it. Your confusion, anxiety, or numbness are real responses to being in a relationship where your autonomy and trust in yourself have been worn down. This isn’t about blame — it’s about clarity.

In therapy we’ll:
- listen without judgement and name what’s been happening
- help you rebuild trust in your own sense of what’s true
- practice gentle boundaries that feel doable, not overwhelming
- support your nervous system so you stop living on edge

You don’t have to figure this out alone. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, or you keep asking yourself “Am I overreacting?” — let’s sit with that together. There’s a way back to feeling like you again: safer, clearer, and more certain of your choices.

If you want to talk it through, send a message or book a free 15‑minute chat. No pressure — just a warm, listening space where your experience matters.

15/01/2026

YOUR PLACE OR MINE?

Counselling isn’t always comfortable — but you can be.

Whether you’d like to meet in my warm, cosy office or join online from the comfort of your own space, therapy isn’t about the room — it’s all about the relationship between us. When we connect, change happens.

I create a welcoming, non-judgemental space and will do everything to make starting counselling feel easier. You talk. I listen. Together we find the way forward.

Book a first session today — in person or online. You’re not alone. www.deeprootscounsellingservice.co.uk

12/01/2026

Look out of my therapy room window today and you’ll see a cold, wet January — and sometimes the weather outside mirrors what’s happening inside us. If you’re feeling low, flat, anxious, or tangled up in difficult relationships or past hurts, you don’t have to face it alone.

At Deep Roots Counselling Service in the heart of Southend’s conservation area, the first session is simply a warm, confidential space for you to speak at your own pace. There’s no fixing, no pressure, and no judgement — just someone to listen and help you begin to make sense of what’s weighing on you. Whether it’s grief, depression, anxiety, or just feeling stuck, “I don’t know where to start” is absolutely enough.

I offer gentle, professional support both face-to-face in Southend and online, tailored to what feels safest for you. If you’d like a short, no-pressure chat to see if we’re a good fit, please DM me or visit my website to arrange a booking — you’re very welcome here.

www.deeprootscounsellingservice.co.uk

07/01/2026

Sometimes you need to look from a different perspective to discover new things...

Are you ready to stop replaying the same patterns and start living with more ease, confidence and connection? At my counselling practice you’ll find a warm, professional, and truly inclusive space where real change happens. I listen — deeply and without judgment — and work with you to uncover fresh perspectives, rebuild confidence, and move forward with purpose.

Why choose me?
- A calm, welcoming environment where everyone is accepted
- Practical, evidence-informed approaches tailored to you
- Compassionate listening that helps you feel seen and understood
- Clear steps and tools you can use right away

This is more than talk — it’s transformation. If you’re done waiting for life to change, make the first move today.

Message me or check out my website at www.deeprootscounsellingservice.co.uk

You talk. I listen. Let’s discover what’s next.

05/01/2026

DON'T LOOK BACK — YOU'RE HEADING FORWARD. Hello 2026.

If you’re ready to move gently into what’s next, I’m here to walk with you. My counselling practice is a warm, safe, and inclusive space where you can be fully yourself. I’ll listen without judgment, hold what’s hard, and help you find the courage to look forward in life.

Everyone is welcome — all backgrounds, identities, and stories. I’ll do everything I can to make you feel comfortable and at ease. You talk. I listen.

Ready to take the next step? Message me to book a free 15-minute chat or to find out more.

02/01/2026

2026: Same patterns, same pain — or a different path that actually fits you.

You don’t need dramatic overhaul. You need someone who listens, sees the small cracks where change can start, and helps you build practical steps that feel doable. That’s what I offer: clear, compassionate counselling tailored to your pace and your life.

If you’re tired of repeating the same stories, try a different kind of conversation. Message me for a confidential, no-pressure chat about what you want to be different — no judgment, just practical support. Let’s make this year the one that’s quietly different.

01/01/2026

New Year, New Start — gently, together.

If this year you want more calm, clearer choices, or to finally stop carrying what’s been weighing you down, I’m here for you. It’s just you, me, and a cup of tea — a place where you talk and I listen. No judgement. No rush. Real support, practical tools, and kindness that helps you move forward.

Whether you want short-term clarity or deeper change, we’ll build a plan that fits your life. Book a free 15-minute chat Message me or comment “START” and I’ll be in touch.

Make 2026 the year you choose yourself.

31/12/2025

TWO WAYS TO BE HAPPY
Unhappy about a situation
Can you change it? Yes → Change it
No → Change your mindset about it

Feeling stuck between “fixing” a situation and resigned acceptance? You don’t have to go it alone.

If you’re tired of feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or powerless, I can help you:
- Identify what you can realistically change and make a plan to do it
- Shift unhelpful thinking patterns so you stop carrying needless pain
- Build practical skills to regain control, confidence and calm

I offer compassionate, evidence-based counselling tailored to your needs — short-term problem-solving, mindset work, or deeper therapy. Fast relief or lasting change: we’ll choose the right approach for you.

Ready to stop waiting for life to get easier?
Book a free 15-minute consultation this week — no pressure, just clarity.
Slots are limited. Message me here or comment “INFO” and I’ll reach out to arrange your call.

Transform stuckness into action or peace. Make the choice to be happier today.

30/12/2025

✨ A Time for Reflection and Gratitude! ✨

As I wrap up the year, I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude. I’ve had the honour of conducting 1,235 counselling sessions, and I am truly thankful for each and every client who has entrusted me with their journey. Your courage and commitment inspire me daily!

The end of the year is a wonderful time for reflection, and it's also the perfect opportunity to consider your own personal growth and well-being. If you're thinking about starting therapy in the New Year, I’d love to support you on that journey.

Whether you’re looking to navigate life’s challenges, explore your emotions, or cultivate healthier relationships, I’m here to help. Together, we can create a path towards healing and growth in 2026.

✨ Wishing you all a joyful Christmas and a wonderful New Year! If you're ready to take that step, feel free to reach out and learn more about how I can assist you.

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Great Wakering
Southend-on-Sea

Telephone

+447541688608

Website

http://www.deeprootscounsellingservice.co.uk/

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