16/05/2023
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When most people think of a nanny, they think of someone who ājustā takes care of their child whilst they go out to work and yet nannying and nannies are so much more than that and because most are trained or have years of experience in childcare they bring so much more to the table than simply minding your children.
Nannies are minds of useful information, tips and hints when it comes to weaning, potty training or tantrums. They have oodles of patience and know when and how to do things that us parents canāt seem to grasp and are more than willing to impart their knowledge and experience to help us.
They get our children trying new things, spend hours playing football, or practising ballet routines and making sure our little ones have all the correct equipment and kit. Somehow unlike us parents they have the energy for just one more tennis match or swimming race.
They are often role models and advocates for our children, encouraging them to look at the world differently, celebrate uniqueness and help give them values and beliefs that shapes the grown up they will eventually become.
Sometimes as parents we canāt always see the bigger picture, we often sweat the small stuff, a nanny can be our childrenās supporter when they feel they arenāt being heard or help us to see things in a different perspective. They teach our children to be confident and stand up for themselves and occasionally knock the spoilt child out of them.
They are often braver than we are, as parents we tend to worry about the ifās and buts, how will we manage with two or three children on the tube? What will we do if it rains and there is no cover when visiting a zoo or park? Nannies have an in-built ability to just get on with it and make even the most awful of situations seem fun and exciting to children.
So, remember when you are hiring someone to be your childrenās nanny and caregiver, itās not just about picking up after them and making sure they are looked after and fed. A nanny is someone who will love your child like their own, fight for them, play with them, party with them, laugh and cry with them. Instead of feeling guilty for leaving them because you need to work, think how your childrenās lives are enriched with the affection and time they are being showered with daily. Your children will be happier and more confident, and you will be a better parent for giving your children opportunities and influences they might not get elsewhere.