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18/09/2025

17/07/2025

Over a third of over 50s would like a casual/relaxed atmosphere at their funeral

A study conducted by a UK provider of pre-paid funeral plans has revealed that over a third of respondents would like a casual, relaxed atmosphere at their funeral. With females being more likely to want floral tributes (10%) and charitable donations (20%) than males (3% and 11% respectively).

Research commissioned by Ecclesiastical Planning Services has revealed that out of 1,500 people surveyed, 1,428 responded to the question ‘What specific theme/atmosphere, if any, would you like there to be at your own funeral?’ Respondents were asked to select all that applied, with 34% stating they would like a casual, relaxed atmosphere at their funeral.

The survey was conducted as part of research into the attitudes of the British public towards funeral planning.

A calm and peaceful funeral ranked second (29%), and specific music was third (25%). A serious and sombre setting was less popular (2%), as well as traditional black attire (4%). Celebratory themes (19%) and colourful dress codes (14%) were also cited.

Those who want to include charitable donations vary per region, with some regions showing more inclination for this e.g. East Midlands at 22% compared to Wales at 9%.

Religious elements and floral tributes were selected by fewer respondents (9% and 7% respectively), with floral tributes as low as 4% in Scotland and 2% in the South-East, with 10% of female respondents wanting floral tributes compared to only 3% of men.

31% of respondents did not have a specific funeral preference or weren’t sure.

Emma Simpson, Marketing Manager at Ecclesiastical Planning Services, said, “With over a third of respondents wanting a casual, relaxed atmosphere at their funeral, and only 4% wanting traditional black attire, and a lower percentage (2%) wanting a serious and sombre setting, it potentially highlights a trend towards less formal funerals. We encourage everyone to discuss their preferences in advance to reduce worry for loved ones.”

William Emery & Sons Independent Family Funeral Directors.
We are an Appointed Representative of Ecclesiastical Planning Services Limited, a funeral plan provider authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority. Firm Reference Number 958152.

Ecclesiastical Planning Services
Part of the Benefact Group, Ecclesiastical Planning Services works with over 830 funeral directing outlets across the country. The Benefact Group is a family of specialist financial services businesses that, from its profits, gives to good causes in order to transform lives and communities.

26/06/2025

At William Emery & Sons, we believe in the traditional values of personal service and honesty. We like to think that’s why many families in the local area have used our services for generations. But we don’t just arrange funerals, we can help you pre-plan one too, reducing the worry for your loved ones.

With a funeral plan, you can arrange every aspect of your funeral in advance and make financial provision. Our professional funeral arrangers are happy to take you through the options.
By arranging a plan today, you’ll secure our direct costs and you can also make a contribution to third party costs. As soon as you take out a plan, you’ll know that all of the arrangements are in place and that your loved ones will receive sensitive support and expert help on the day itself.

Find out how we can help you plan ahead. Call us today on
01785 251205 or visit www.emerys.co.uk

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William Emery & Sons Limited, The Laurels, 13 County Road, Stafford, ST16 2PU Reg. No. 05892990
Mr C G K Emery is an Appointed Representative of Ecclesiastical Planning Services Limited Reg. No. 2644860, registered in England at Benefact House, 2000 Pioneer Avenue, Gloucester Business Park, Brockworth, Gloucester, GL3 4AW, UK, which is authorised and regulated by the Financial Conduct Authority. Firm Reference Number 958152.

21/05/2025

https://www.staffordshirefire.gov.uk/news/posts/firefighters-and-staff-remembered-in-new-memorial/

The unveiling will include a short ceremony, live music in the garden and a buffet. The relatives, friends and colleagues of those included on the memorial are invited to the event.

10/12/2024

Last day today! Kicks off with singing from Berkswich school at 10am. Don't miss it.

04/12/2024

The Christmas tree festival started today at St Mary’s Church

21/10/2024

You read it here first. The ever popular Christmas Tree festival at Saint Mary's in the centre of UK and the heart of . A spectacular church filled with trees decorated by different groups, schools, businesses and community organisations. Supporting Saint Mary's and the Mayor of Stafford Borough's charities.
Check the dates now really must not miss this. More details and times of special events later. Stafford Borough Council Diocese

30/01/2024

https://funeral-notices.co.uk/notice/emery/5170665

Friends and family can add photos, memories and messages on their lasting tribute page today.

28/11/2023

21/11/2023

The Purple Bow Scheme has been funded by the UHNM Charity thanks to generous donations from former patients, staff and relatives. More information can be found by visiting www.uhnmchairty.org.uk or by calling 01782 676444.

07/11/2023

The Crystal Carriage looking beautiful in the autumn sunshine