14/12/2025
Before transitioning into death care, Sam worked in adult care for many years. Specialising in dementia and end of life care, Sam worked with many clients, some of whom we have cared for in death as well as in life.
B was a lovely gentleman who had dementia. Every day he would chat with Sam, talk about his life and the quiz show on tv and spend the time conversing like old friends.
One day, in the run up to Christmas, Sam commented on this lovely blanket and said how beautiful it was.
When B passed, his family gifted the blanket to Sam. And Sam cried. Tears of gratitude but also tears of reflection - On all those days of conversations, quiz shows and B’s amazing life.
Today, the Christmas blanket has come out. And with it, memories.
This Christmas, Sam will remember, with love and fondness, B and their daily chats.
And she’ll probably cry again. And that’s ok.
Because at Christmas, it’s often the smallest things that bring the biggest memories back to life.
A decoration that only comes out once a year. A well-worn bauble. A handwritten label on an old box. The scent of a candle, a piece of music, a chair that always belonged to them.
As we unpack these items, memories surface — moments of laughter, love, traditions, and sometimes tears. Christmas has a way of gently reminding us of those who should still be here, and how deeply they are still part of us. These objects aren’t just things; they are touchpoints to people we carry in our hearts every day.
At Elite Funeral Services, we know how powerful these moments can be. We see how memories live on through the rituals, the keepsakes, and the quiet pauses that come with this season. If Christmas brings a mix of emotions for you, please know that you’re not alone.
Your memories matter.
Your loved ones are remembered.
And it’s okay to feel it all. 🤍
