24/03/2026
Mindfulness is about more than meditation.
Itâs about cultivating certain inner qualities, what Jon Kabat-Zinn calls Mindfulness Attitudes, that shape how we relate to ourselves and to life.
This month, Iâm exploring some of these attitudes and how they can support us when living with pain and chronic illness.
Compassion
When weâre stressed, overwhelmed, or angry, our capacity for compassion naturally shrinks. This isnât a failure, itâs biology.
In moments of threat or stress, the brainâs survival system kicks in. The amygdala activates our fight-or-flight response, prioritising protection over connection. When this happens, the critical inner voice often gets louder, and kindness towards ourselves and others, slips into the background.
Mindfulness practice gently helps us shift this balance.
Through mindfulness, we can start cultivating self-compassion, learning to meet our own experience with care rather than criticism. As the nervous system settles, compassion naturally expands outward to others too.
When we intentionally âswitch onâ compassion, the body releases calming, supportive chemicals such as oxytocin and serotonin, natural antidotes to stress. These help calm the amygdala, quieten the inner critic, and create the conditions for greater emotional and physical wellbeing.
Over time, this compassionate response becomes more accessible and mindfulness becomes even more effective with regular practice.
A gentle reflection
Ask yourself today:
âHow can I show myself a little more compassion right now?â
If youâd like to explore this further, Iâm taking bookings for my next virtual, live 8-week Mindfulness course, starting this month.
Email livewellwithchronicillness@outlook.com to find out more or book your space