11/01/2026
What is it like to be a child living with autism?
This was written by Bradley O'Connell in his own words aged 15yrs.
It's hard swallowing pills so I recommend disposable ones, but everyone is different and some will just refuse some medication. It is hard to swallow because of the taste. If you are having this problem, give them something good to help wash it down like a treat or something they like. (I used my sandwich)
Going to the toilet is tricky with germs and again everyone is different. If they don’t want to use a public toilet then don’t try making it better by encouraging them to go. 60% of the time it won't help the situation It will only make it worse.
When you have autism stuff sounds louder and you’re a bit more sensitive so when going to a firework display, listening to bands, or other loud activities get a good pair of ear defenders, to help block out the noise. The better they are the more it will help
In school it’s hard to remember the task being asked to do. It’s easier to have a step-by-step guide. Only give them 1 step at a time because it’s too much and will be too confusing. Always try to bear with them so they can understand especially if they have a lot to do.
When you are going clothes shopping make sure to check with them first, because the label or the clothes might irritate them and would need to be cut off.
When eating - textured or plain food is important to recognise, that they may not be accustomed to trying new things. so just let them do it in their own time and don’t push them too much.
This was my advice on autism hope it helped.
Bradley O’connell.
