30/01/2026
This pretty much sums up the therapy I had in my teens.... dealing with teen angst- I then found out why it was there in the therapy I've had as an adult. Now that wasn't to say it wasn't invaluable to have the "mean girls" space as a teen, it really was. I just wasn't ready to go any further at that time. And that's okay.
I remember the therapist I had as a teen- I remember feeling annoyed by her. As I'm now a therapist, I think it's fair to say she inspired me, because even though I was a moody little cow, and probably threw out some personal comments at times, she showed up regardless and made space to be annoyed. I now see this through a different lens- it was exactly what I needed at the time. That being said- it probably also informed me- that working with adults is the right path for me as a therapist.