06/03/2026
I say it in every class.
Every session.
Every conversation.
“Never apologise for your baby.”
And there’s a reason it matters so much to me - I remember how it felt, early on in motherhood, to walk into a room and worry about being a “disruption.”
Worry they’d cry, fuss, that other people would judge.
You spend so much time trying to keep everything quiet, calm, controlled…
even though babies aren’t any of those things.
They cry, wriggle, feed, and they need you.
That’s not disruption - that’s normal.
That’s babyhood.
When you step into my classes, your baby is allowed to be… a baby.
Noise and all.
Needs and all.
And you’re allowed to breathe.
To stop apologising for things that don’t need apologising for.
To feel safe enough to focus on you instead of shrinking yourself down so no one’s “inconvenienced.”
So, when I say “never apologise for your baby,” what I really mean is:
You’re welcome here.
Exactly as you are.
Exactly as they are.
P.S. Spoiler alert… The moment you stop apologising everywhere you go, the lighter motherhood will feel. Give it a go and thank me later 😘