29/09/2025
Day 2 at Transform Trauma..
💚10.30 Dr J Flowers ‘unleashing the power within, the science of manifesting your life’
💚1.15 Ruth Cone ‘what’s regulation got to do with it, a Neglect-informed Exploration of the sexual world.
💚3.15 Frank Anderson ‘Breaking cycles, building connection, a relational paradigm shift in psychotherapy & healing’
💚5.15 Matthias Barker ‘The pain of Estrangement, understanding and healing from broken relationships’
So much to take in and experience in one day but WOW I’ve learnt so much! 🤓
Moved to tears a few times today thinking about my own journey and traumas I’ve experienced and worked through.🥺 (yes us therapists are not immune to being triggered or activated, just like our clients, we are all in this thing together, trying to find better ways to cope with the parts of us that still hurt) 🤗
This means, I can relate to others Trauma and pain because ‘I get it’ and that is a beautiful thing, compassion, connection & love is what heals trauma .. not education.
I don’t mind revisiting my own stuff as it’s an opportunity to learn something new about myself, from there I can gain self awareness to grow even further 🌱
It gets more comfortable the more I do it, and I become curious now about what I can learn rather than scared to lean into the uncomfortable truth. And of course I know how to regulate and show compassion to myself, to soothe my inner child and keep her safe, she still freaks out when I go all in lol! 😂
Little Jenni knows I’ve got her now and is learning to trust me! 🫶🏻😘🙏🏼