08/07/2025
🧠 💭 Food for thought 🧠 💭
It’s in those moments of vulnerability, when you need others the most that you truly see who shows up, and who only adds to the weight you’re already carrying.
The hardest truth is realising that some things, and some people, have to be left behind for your own peace. Change is inevitable, even when it means walking away from what you thought you needed.
However, it is really difficult to walk away from relationships, and friendships, when you think they serve a purpose, when your self worth is on the floor…!
You will accept people making you a second option, you have little to no boundaries, you will pick your battles because you haven’t got the energy to stand up and fight them all. You will burn out, and you will be lonely!
I see this far too often in the therapy room, and I have been this person on the receiving end too. If you allow this behaviour and you have no boundaries people will step on you to make themselves taller.
Here at Steer into Counselling we can help you work on your confidence and self-esteem, to support you in nurturing the relationship you have with yourself, from a self-sabotaging, criticising, unloving one, to a more accepting, respectful, valued one.
By challenging and changing the way you see relationship’s, together we can help shape them into healthy, balanced and supportive environments, instead of, negative, unhealthy, toxic ones.
The hardest part, is learning how to love, accept, value and respect yourself, when you’ve not experienced it, but once you begin to make the small steps to learn how to do that, the next chapter can be a lot smoother.
It is scary, but you won’t be on your own 😊
If you feel like you need support, get in touch. You can DM me or contact us through the website.
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