09/02/2026
Last year, I vowed never to go on a plane again!
My fear of flying was gradually getting worse, leaving me in tears and trembling.
I had tried many things over the years to relieve the fear but just couldn't find the right combination.
The realisation that I may never get on a plane again was something I could accept and even enjoy. But, life and decisions aren't linear. I also knew I was limiting my participation in future opportunities and life events. (the obvious ecological impact is something i'll come back to another time).
So, one last go. This is what helped me actually enjoy a flight this time!
1. I took a Fearless Flyer course to get to the root cause of what I was really fearful of. Clue -it wasn't actually fear of flying.
2. I learnt about the technical aspects of flight, the noises, and the flight routines.
3. I learnt an EFT (tapping) routine that I practice in the days leading up to the flight. This helps reduce the building stress.
3. I see flight as an absolute privilege and approach it as such, with reverence.
4. I prepare my bag and flight activities with thought, rather than throwing everything in, hoping for the best. I still find reading on a plane too much, so don't bother with a book.
5. I switched from calming breath practices (longer exhale than inhale) to box breathing (equal, inhale, exhale & pauses) which has a more stabilising effect (calms with a sense of control)
6. Nasal breathing with many small breath holds (10 seconds) to help with congestion and dryness experienced by cabin environment
7. I changed my soft and soothing binaural beats for electronic dance music - this was the real surprise for me! Amongst other things, it gives my brain an anchor that helps regulate intrusive thoughts and an external focus of repetitive rhythm- a perfect partner for box breathing in my case.
8. An in flight glass of prosecco, plenty of water, dark chocolate ✨️
This is a very specific combination for me, but it may give you inspiration if you struggle.
As with any anxiety inducing events, addressing the root cause is the game changer.
And we can only address the root cause when we're ready to do so 🌿✨️