10/12/2025
Why is it so hard to ask for help?
A few weeks ago I made a secret webpage on my website, encouraged by a good friend.
I was/am asking for help to pay for the venue fees for my Tunbridge Wells choir for the next 3-6 months (£500-£600). You can read the story on the page but my aim is to grow this singing for wellbeing group to 50 women in the new year 💪😎
I was encouraged again today when another friend said she had seen my story a few weeks ago and had gone to donate but hadn't finished and then lost the link (which I had only shared once). So here I am again, posting an actual photo about it.
It's brave asking for help and when we do it can be met with kindness and support. And I know there are a million and one causes that all need help out there but I am putting mine out there now too...I think it is hard to ask for help because sometimes we don't value ourselves, so here I am, endeavouring to value myself, my work and my group of women.
Thank you to those that have donated and shared already. I've raised just over £320 and it means the absolute world to me.