08/01/2026
Listening vs Forcing - How Yoga Changes When You Tune In. By Vicky Brzonkalik
New Year is a funny time, and it's all too easy to bring the same mindset into yoga as we often do in life….
Make drastic changes, push harder and do more.
But yoga, like life, changes immensely when we listen to our body and mind. When we shift from an attitude of forcing into exploring.
For example, forcing can look like:
• Pushing your body into a pose because you think you should. Because that's what the instructor / person next to you is doing.
• Ignoring warning signs like fatigue, pain, or resistance
• Measuring your progress by how you think a pose should look
Exploring and listening feels very different.
It means:
• Noticing your breath before your shape
• Choosing a variation or modification without guilt
• Resting when you need to
Yoga (in my opinion) should not be something you do TO your body, more something you do WITH it. I always say at the beginning of my classes that….
‘Anything goes, as long as you are not harming yourself or others’.
Experience has taught me that listening and exploring is far more pleasurable and in turn beneficial.
This is because pleasure leads to consistency. And consistency—not force—is where the magic happens