
06/07/2025
Happy birthday to my first born 🥳🥰
Born on the 6/7/93 at 42+1, weighing 9lb and born on my brothers birthday!
My pregnancy was uneventful, his birth was straight forward and I had an uneventful recovery. I had a 5 day stay in hospital, which back then was pretty standard even after a normal birth! I birthed him in hospital and accepted the care that was provided was what everyone had. I had absolutely no idea that there were options as none were presented to me. That was just how it was, or so I thought. I was young and very naive.
I didn’t have a bad experience but I also didn’t have an empowering experience either looking back. I was just delighted to have my baby. I think current maternity care and offering choice is a lot better than it was when I had my babies but we still have such a long way to go!
I was always maternal and knew I always wanted to be a mother from being very small (just hadn’t planned for it to happen as young as I was!). I had my first baby very young, I was still at school!
Having my own babies & being in awe of my midwives sparked a passion in me that I knew I wanted to do the same and help make a difference to other women having their babies. Here we are, 32 years on, 4 babies of my own and over 15 years of being a midwife and supporting families having their own babies ❤️
My first born, who made me a mother and changed my world 🥰