14/08/2022
As hard as it feels, being able to leave a situation is power.
Being able to walk away from a controlling relationship or a job you hate is empowering. It teaches you that taking action when something isn't working gets you exactly where you need to be .
Standing in the power of your own financial responsibility - even if it means struggling like hell for a while - teaches you that whatever happens, you will be ok.
Knowing that you, and only you are responsible for your actions gives you courage in your decisions, and nowhere or no-one to hide behind if you are throwing barriers up for yourself .
The silence of evenings spent alone forces you to sit with those parts of you you feel most uncomfortable with, and not only accept them but love them.
What power have you gained from walking away?
If it costs you your peace
it's too expensive