14/10/2025
This week is very poignant for me and my family. Ten years ago, on October 15th, I left my ex-husband, my marital home, and just two days later, on October 17th, I watched my beautiful mother take her last breath. Then a few weeks later I found my Stepfather dead, after suffering a heart attack. I was completely heartbroken, my family unit, safety & security gone within a month! 🙏🏻✨🩷
What a decade it has been a rollercoaster of pain, heartache, chaos, stress, anxiety, and moments of feeling completely lost and disconnected. Avoiding my grief by using destructive coping mechanisms, which pushed me into darker wholes.
Then finally I realised I couldn’t continue to live this life anymore. So I took responsibility, stop blaming others & made significant life changes. Over the last few years, I’ve been on a journey of healing, growth, and rebuilding my life. I’ve learned to love myself and my life again 🩷✨🩷
My grief, loss, pain, and journey have shaped me into who I am today. I’ve done the deep inner work to heal myself, break free from toxic cycles, and remove myself from negative environments. It hasn’t been easy it’s been scary and lonely at times, but it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. Remember all our journeys are different, never compare your grief to others, your feelings & pain are always valid!
One of the greatest gifts of healing is being able to feel truly present. When your life becomes calm and peaceful, you begin to appreciate the little things, the things you never noticed before. Every part of your life improves: physical, mental, emotional, financial, and relationships. In my darkest days, I never imagined I would feel this happy again. I honestly didn’t think it was possible 🙏🏻🩷
I then followed my passion & dreams, to help others & make a difference. I still have to pinch myself at times! I can’t believe I have now helped hundreds of adults & children heal & rebuild their lives! This is exactly my purpose & where I am meant to be!
I truly want to thank many people for their love, support & guidance along the way, my wonderful family, special friends & my amazing partner Paul. Most importantly my two girls who are both beautiful inside & out. I honestly not sure I would be here today without them! I know at times I’ve not been the best Mum, they never judged but continued to show me love & for that I’m eternally grateful.
If you’re struggling right now, feeling stuck & can’t see a way forward. Please know that healing is possible, you can feel happy again. You just have to believe in YOU & surround yourself with likeminded people who will help you on your journey! 🩷💪🏼✨
Always here for guidance & support!
