
23/08/2025
Men and women may look similar but, in general, we are very different creatures!
Men - you were hunters. Your role was to provide for the tribe. The need for talking was minimal as you hunted. You had to be focussed and goal orientated to bring back the dinner 🥩There wouldn’t have been much time for expressing your feelings in survival mode, as you protected your tribe from harm.
Women provided for the tribe, but in a different way. We took care of the young and gathered the nuts and berries 🍓We had to communicate and connect with the other women because of this.
The role you play is powerful, but strength doesn’t mean ignoring your own needs.
Your emotions matter. Even if you’re not ready to talk about them right now, you still need to process them.
Because here’s the truth…unprocessed emotions don’t disappear, they stay in the body. Over time, they show up as stress, burnout, or even heart attacks and strokes.
Being strong doesn’t mean being silent.
It means facing what’s inside, working through it, and coming out even stronger.
One of the biggest mistakes I see couples make (and I have been completely guilty of this!) is when we expect our partner to behave, feel and react the way we do.
It’s important to remember that these patterns don’t fit every individual or relationship, but recognising and embracing our differences can only help.
Get curious with your partner. Ask questions to understand how they see the world 🌍
It would be a boring place to be if we were all the same! 💙