14/03/2026
I met up with an online mate today.We’ve done virtual Reiki before, but this was our first time meeting face-to-face. Just as we were about to start, she mentioned we didn't have to stick to the usual Reiki. Since her heart was genuinely ready, we switched things up.
We all hit those phases where we feel completely lost, especially right before a massive life change. It's a tough spot because your old life doesn't fit anymore, but you can't see the guidance for where you're heading next. Clinging to old ways in the present just causes friction and heartache. The anxiety and doubt of the unknown trap you like a thick fog, leaving you feeling completely stuck.
We're always so obsessed with asking for the "final outcome," but we haven't got a clue how to actually reach it. The truth is, that outcome is going to happen eventually anyway. What you actually need to do is get yourself ready to face that result and embrace the new start.
When reality pulls you in different directions, you need to spot what you’re actually rejecting inside. When you hope for a future that suits you better, you need to know what career genuinely sparks your passion. To truly change, you've got to figure out what you love, what you hate, and what you’re actually good at. You need to know your boundaries and rules because all these things make up the real you.
Today, my friend decoded her life path number and discovered her soul's natural gifts. She realised that making decisions isn't just about pursuing that original outcome anymore. Now she knows her true talents, her direction, and where she needs to put a bit more graft into learning. She figured out that the real struggle isn't about when to make a choice, but knowing how to prepare herself right now so she's ready to make that decision.
There's no need to have a go at yourself just because you don't fully understand yourself yet. And you definitely shouldn't compare your timeline to anyone else's. We're all sitting a different exam in life, so the time it takes, the methods we use, and the final answers are naturally going to be different for everyone.
I hope everyone gets the chance to understand their own 'factory settings'.
