30/05/2025
A Gentle Farewell
After 27 years as a practicing sports massage therapist—far beyond the average span of a career in this field—I find myself slowly winding down.
Since 1998, I’ve had the immense privilege of offering thousands of treatments to people from all walks of life: from athletes and martial artists to those who simply appreciated the healing touch of massage. I’ve shared moments with celebrities and everyday folk alike, and every encounter has left its mark on me.
This year, if life allows, I will begin to receive my pension. It’s a moment that brings both reflection and quiet gratitude. What has sustained me through the years has been the steady practice of Tai Chi, Qigong, Dao Yin and meditation. Underpinning this all has been my faith: a source of comfort and meaning that lies beyond the reach of words to convey, although I have spoken much.
To every person who entrusted me with their care over the years: thank you. I’ve done my very best for each and every one of you. A fellow therapist once confided in me that he often felt guilty after work, believing he could have given more. I have never felt that way, usually the opposite! I have always poured my heart, soul, and energy into this work, and so I leave with no regrets, only deep appreciation.
Although I am still treating some longstanding clients, I am no longer taking on new ones. This isn’t because I’ve reached some luxurious place of ease, but rather because something within me is shifting—asking for stillness, and teaching me to listen.
There are many talented therapists continuing the work. My quiet departure will barely ripple the surface—and that’s how it should be. But for me, it marks the end of a profound journey, one I will always hold dear.
In a few more months, I’ll quietly step away and offer a soft wave of farewell to a vocation that has been one of the great honours of my life.
Addendum. Getting concerned students asking if I am going to be stopping teaching Tai Chi as well. No plans there folks. Have finished my third year of training in Xian Tian college of Chinese Medicine so we we will see how it goes there. x