14/02/2026
Valentineâs Day can be⊠a lot.
Thereâs a huge amount of noise about love, relationships, desirability, and what we âshouldâ have, feel, or be by now.
For some people itâs joyful.
For others it can bring up loneliness, grief, comparison, pressure â or just a vague sense of being on the outside looking in.
If today feels tender, complicated, overstimulating, or emotionally loud in any way, youâre not broken for finding it hard.
This might be a day for the side step danceâŠ
For muting the group chat.
For not opening the app.
For choosing comfy clothes.
For eating the same safe meal again.
For opting out of conversations you donât have the capacity for.
For remembering that you are not a self-improvement project.
The longest relationship youâll ever have is the one you have with yourself â and itâs allowed to be imperfect and still deserving of care đ
TL;DR:
You donât have to improve yourself to be worthy of love