01/12/2021
Covid had exhausted us and and research suggests Covid may be pushing more of us down the mental health curve, with increasing anxiety, low mood and reduced wellbeing ....so these are ideas of how to continue to look after your mental health when you are already depleted and exhausted.
1. Understand this is not you, or a failiure in you. How you are feeling is a product of months of living with high stress, uncertainly and anxiety, along with the inability to use our normal coping strategies. The depletion and exhaustion is a result of our body having it’s foot on its gas pedal for too long, which leaves us feeling and being depleted.
2. Hold onto your buoys, the things that keep you afloat when waters are choppy. What gentle activities do you have capacity for that will help keep you afloat? Make breakfast the night before, drink enough fluid, get some day light, go to bed early. These things don’t use much resources, but not doing them can make you sink far faster when you are feeling bad already.
3. If your normal coping strategies seem too much effort, try to think of a small gentle way you could use those coping strategy, so it still has some effect. Can’t face zooming, can you text instead? Can’t face the gym, go outside for a few minutes walk instead? Seeing coping strategies as all or nothing can lead to Abandoning them, but finding gentle alternative keeps some of the positive impact which is far better than none at all.
4. Be extra gentle on yourself.... when we are tired we have less cognitive resources. More things may go wrong, we can do less, and we may not function how we expect to. This is lighter fuel for your inner critic and your brain can fall into well worn paths of self criticism. This is a sign to hold on to self compassion and not let go but you may not have the resources to initiate this. Find ways to remind yourself of your compassionate voice that requires less effort, such as prompts or saved kind messages.
5. Remember that none of us can always function alone. We all need extra input at time. Seeking and accepting help is not a failure, it’s a basic human need and a form of active coping to help keep us afloat.
TBC