Tamar Soul Midwife

19/11/2024

Children’s Grief Awareness Week 🤍

At any given time, one in every 29 children is facing the death of a close family member – roughly one child in each school class in the country.

This week is Children’s Grief Awareness Week (18 - 24 November). The theme for this year is , building realistic hope with children about their loved one's diagnosis to help them navigate the present and future.

Children are being encouraged to create their own box. The box can be whatever they want it to be, from a cardboard box filled with memories, souvenirs and happy reminders to a digital playlist of songs or photo album on a tablet or phone. Anything that helps them see and remember the good memories, even when things get tough.

There is no set way to grief and we understand that everyone processes their grief differently so we want to make sure that we are there to support any children or adults whose loved ones we are caring for.

To find out more about the support our patient and family support team provide visit: https://bit.ly/3QWd88I

18/06/2024

I find myself in a moment of bliss, resting in the sun and feeling happy and then the sad comes in and hits me, a little punch in the chest, a pause in the gut, an extra breath in, followed by a big sigh in the realisation that you’re not here to share all this with me.

But with every soft breeze that strokes across my cheeks, I imagine that you are the one making it all so.

14/06/2024

More care support work flowing in to work with people intuitively with sound, energy and vibration for healing, explorative play, relaxation, communication and meaningful connection.

I cannot wait for my beautiful 432hz handpan made by in Devon to be used for healing purposes in this way. Going back to where I found true magical moments between two people, the cared for and the carer. The energetic sparks that fly when you’ve touch them inside and allowed them to feel heard and seen. Bringing more of my spiritual, shamanic style to things these days is going to be so very interesting.

13/06/2024

I’m feeling very grateful that Devine timing is in full flow, having been sought out by a local care home to provide therapeutic holistic therapies for a young lady in their care.

She apparently loves tuning forks, intuitive play and her name is Rose 🌹🥰

I am interested in taking on other clients who live in care homes and other facilities so please get in touch if you are within the Tavistock area for my availability.

I also had a heart scan today and all is well, my nurse was incessantly called Mary…

I am listening, and so it is ❤️‍🔥🌀🙏🏼🌹✨🌙

23/05/2024

I am thrilled to of finally found my mentor in for her river of love Myrrhophore training school and after our call today I feel my pathway to this sacred work expanding and beginning now, auspiciously on the full flower moon
🌙 🥰🙏🏼🌹

Grateful to of found sisters who walk this path with such wild graceful devotion.

May we weave intentions of love together through our sacred feminine nature for the good of ourselves and for all.

Blessings and Love 🙏🏼

11/04/2024

- Funerals Matter -

30/03/2024

This is a sacred time to feel into this role more and more.

I am looking forward to take the next step in my Soul Midwife Journey and book my level 2, the journey into psychopomp and the care of the dead.

It is what I am being guided to do.
I am listening 🙏🏼

A long, long time ago, there was an ancient tradition of women who worked with sacred oils for the highest good of All. These women were called Myrrhophores, also known as myrrh-bearers or mistresses of the oils. They were priestesses of an even older order whose time has returned and is with us once again.

The work of these women was to anoint those approaching death and to prepare the way for the soul to soar. The sacred oil would realign people with their true soul essence, and carry them to 'other side'. The Myrrhophore would hold a vigil (usually three days) whilst praying and uttering the intonation of the oil. The combination of softly spoken voice and perfume healed the wounds in the soul caused by events not only in this life but also in the past.

This myrrh-bearing tradition has its earthly roots in the ancient temples of Egypt and is still kept alive by a few practitioners today. However, the oil itself is the High Priestess and gateway to the inner temple. Mary Magdalene was a Myrrhophore. Isis was a Myrrhophore. Cleopatra, Hatshepsut..., the names are many, and the tradition is one.

The myrrhophore not only works with dis “ease” in the spirit and soul but also the disharmony within the environment. She tunes in to the subtle discordance and acknowledges its unrest. Turning to the oils, and its pure expression of the Divine, she offers herself as a bridge bringing the gift of wholeness and healing.

In the Eastern Orthodox and Greek Catholic churches, the Third Sunday of Pascha (i.e. the second Sunday after Easter) is called the 'Sunday of the Myrrh-bearers'. It is clear that during the time of Christ being a Myrrhophore was a very esteemed and honourable position to hold. So much so, that it was the most famous Myrrhophore, Mary Magdalene that got to see and speak with the resurrected Christ.

~Anaiya Sophia
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art | Ludovico Brea

20/03/2024

This little collection consists of wonderful flower essence “Soul Support” for my deep love loss grief made by my friend Rebecca Millar (see previous post for contact details as I can’t tag her personal page)

I spent a few days with out them and I have to say I began to feel quiet overwhelmed. So back on them today and lots of time in the garden to ground.

The other tiny bottle is the sacred oil Violet used by Soul Midwives and Myyrophores for deep grief.

Our plants are our allies who can work with us on a deeply innate, biological and vibrational level.

I have been drawing a heart on my heart with the roller ball and fusing my intensions with them of healing and love.

20/03/2024

Today we celebrate the first day of Spring and a beautiful time to weave in themed activities with your dying friends

- Activity Ideas -

Have a spring clean!
Create a Spring Altar or table piece
Play Spring themed / uplifting music
Use fresh / floral scents / essential oils
Bake cakes
Make egg based meals
Plant seeds
Talk and Reminisce about their memories of Spring times
Read poetry, passages and Mantras
Make collages using spring themed pictures, creating spring frames to go over pictures
Easter bonnets / fun photo shoots
Make special teas /. drinks to tantalise their taste buds
Bring colours of spring in to their space
Bring in potted plants
Flower arranging
Cur flowers by their bedside
Chocolate 🍫 🤭👌🏼

The list goes on!

Share your ideas if things you have can do at Spring time with your friends in the comments 🙏🏼

Blessings to you on this Spring Equinox 🧹💐🥚🐇

20/03/2024

Dying on the radio!

Dr Kathryn Mannix is an amazing advocate for good deaths and well worth listening in too. Get your questions in before hand to give them the best chance to answer them and get the date and time in the diary 🤓

18/03/2024

🤍🤍🤍

As You Have Done for Me

If you were here
I would put my hand
on your heart
and hold it there
until our breaths
became a single tide,
hold it there until
I could feel the moment
when you remember
your infinite value.
It’s so easy to forget
we are treasure.
So easy to lose track
of our own immeasurable worth.
The chest rusts shut.
We think we are empty.
Amazing how easily
we are fooled into believing
we’re paupers.
Sometimes it takes another
to remind us
we have always been
not only the treasure
but also the key.
Though the hinges
are a metaphor,
the treasure is not.
We were made to open,
to share our priceless gift,
to press our hands
to each other’s hearts
until we all remember.

~ Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer

[Art: Joseph Lorusso Fine Art]

17/03/2024

I've just reached 100 supporters of my page, thank you.

This is the year that I fully step into my dharma and with the recent loss of my new love I am being guided fully into my Soul Midwife and Sound Healer path. Not so much guided but thrust! But into the deep end I shall go. Diving deep into this personal journey so I may learn what I can and share with you as I go. I will begging to post more about the magical things that are happening as well as the down right tough, it’s all valid and woven into my life tapestry.

I hope that by sharing it will help anyone else and I’d love to connect more with others on this path, who would like to know more about Soul Midwifery and Sound Healing.

Thanks again for liking my page 🙏🏼💖