03/10/2025
What a wet & windy day today!!!☔️💨
So glad to get done early and be in the warm now!!!!
This week we have seen 6 children for equine 🐴therapy and emotional resilience coaching.
1 for animal care. Plus one new little one who braved the rain today to meet Cheeky!
Today was also a parent coach day.
Whilst I talk to children regularly about their emotion scale & emotional regulation. It is useful for us to stop and think about where we are on ours too…… are we calm and focused right now or stressed and on the ‘edge’???
When we are calm and focused we can make the best decisions, problem solve and handle whatever life throws at us, because we are regulated, allowing our nervous system to function capably and comfortably.
However, if we are stressed, anxious, over worked, over tired, or at the end of our tether, our nervous system operates from its fight or flight system. We are more easily triggered, lose patience, lose memory function and cannot make our wisest choices and decisions.
Prolonged periods in this state can lead to fatigue, depression, shut down and illness as we enter the freeze state. Our bodies need time to recover and repair.
In coaching this is symbolised by the traffic light system 🚦
💚 we are ready to go, all fuelled up and feeling good
💛 are we motivated to go or ready to stop? This is where the fight or flight system is activated
🛑 This is stop, freeze, rest, depression, wait.
Do you know where you are on your traffic light system? Right now, during different situations, or generally in life????
Do you need to 🛑 monitor your nervous system and ask yourself what it needs right now???
I love doing this exercise with both children and adults as it opens up lots of good conversation.
It’s something I think we should all know and be aware of to improve our mental wellbeing 💖
Have a great weekend everyone…..