16/12/2024
Wishing you a positive Monday , has we move towards 2025 it a good time to reflect on this year and how we can move into 2025. Life and people can test us but taking a deep breath a nights sleep , talking to a friend or family member all will feel better .
Take a moment to read through this post below .
9 QUOTES THAT WILL BRING YOU PEACE WHEN DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE.
1. The greatest stress you go through when dealing with a difficult person is not fueled by the words and actions of the person - it is fueled by your mind that gives their words and actions importance.
2. It’s okay to be upset, it is never okay to be cruel. Rage, resentment and jealousy do not change the hearts of others. They only change yours.
3. Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace. Free yourself from being an eternal victim.
4. Stay positive when negativity surrounds you. Smile when others refuse to. It’s an easy way to make a difference in the world around you.
5. Gossip and drama ends at a wise person’s ears. Be wise. Seek to understand before you begin to judge. Use judgement not as a weapon for putting others down, but as a tool for making positive choices that help you build your own character.
6. Always set an example. Treat everyone with kindness and respect even those who are rude to you, not because they are nice, because you are. And do your best to be thankful for rude and difficult people too - they serve as great reminders of how not to be.
7. The way we treat people we strongly disagree with is a report card on what we’ve learned about love, compassion and kindness. Life is too short to argue and fight. Count your blessings, value the people who matter, and move on from the drama with your head held high.
8. Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you constantly surround yourself with difficult people. The great danger of being around difficult people is that you will start to become like them without knowing it. Just because you are kind to someone , does NOT mean you have to spend extra time with them.
9. If you really want to be happy and peaceful, then stop being afraid of being yourself, and stop thinking about what others think of you every second. There’s nothing selfish about giving yourself enough space for self care. Experience life on your terms and you will be life-giving to others.