05/12/2024
Yea I said what I said 💁🏼♀️
We hear the words safe space thrown around so often, usually connected with some sage burning, cacao drinking, drumming, plinky music ceremony. Which is all very lovely and all BUT….! What about that actually makes it a ‘safe space’
Before we open our Circle, we spend a few minutes setting our very clear intentions and boundaries about what makes our Circle an actual, authenic, safe space and I would love to share these with you…
✨ you only talk/share when you are holding the sharing talisman
✨ when one person is talking, everyone else is holding that space for them and actively listening
✨ there is absolutely no requirement to share out loud if you don’t wish to
✨when someone is sharing, no one judges or jumps in with solutions or well-meaning advice, when they have finished, we simply thank them for sharing and move on to the next person
✨emotions and big feelings are ok, even if they make people feel uncomfortable. It’s ok to feel uncomfortable without needing to fix it
✨oversharing and ugly crying is allowed (and welcomed!)
✨ what is shared during Circle stays at Circle (think Fight Club but without the fighting 😉)
✨ your authentic form is all we ask for
With our clear boundaries set, we open our Circle, knowing we truly are in a safe space and that, my friends, is when the magic happens ❤️