03/09/2025
Whether it is your mental health, your physical health, or overwhelm at the state of the world, training your dog can wait.
Hang out with your dog, spend time together, play and be silly, but don't focus on expectations or achieving set goals when you are already struggling.
Things happen! Terrible things, stressful things, painful things. Training is supposed to be a fun and collaborative exercise, and if you are only doing it because you feel like you "should" then nobody is going to benefit from it.
Sometimes the best way to take the breath you need is to stop gripping onto control, and to let your dog just exist. Watching them bounce around and sniff on a walk instead of worrying about heeling or cues, gives you a chance to just stop. It is just a moment, and it will pass.