Totton and Eling Family History

Totton and Eling Family History Welcome to Totton and Eling Family History page. A new brand of Historical Society so to speak. Weekly/monthly meets, talks, and events are on the horizon.

We are currently two friends with a passion for genealogy and local history who are embarking on a journey to share the stories of the families that lived in the area and the history of the locality. In time once we have found our feet we will be expanding to allow for more people to join us. We aim to have available full BMD records from St Mary's church and to build up a database of various coll

ections making them available for public consultation. At the moment we are in the process of making a map of all the plots in the cemetery, one that can be searched to find the final resting place of a loved family member, a dear friend, or a Great Grandfather you may never have met. These people have stories to tell and we want to bring them to life for everybody to hear. If you have any questions, would like help starting your family tree, or would like to join us in the near future please do get in touch, we would love to hear from you.

A Rushington Manor’s family link to an American Founding Father.Colonel William Bayard Sr was born in New York in 1729, ...
31/03/2025

A Rushington Manor’s family link to an American Founding Father.

Colonel William Bayard Sr was born in New York in 1729, son of Stephen Bayard and Alide Vetch.

William raised a regiment at his own expense among his tenets of which he became the Colonel. He served the cause that deemed right, staying loyal to the crown during the American Revolutionary War assisting the British troops that occupied New York City in 1776. After the war and losing all of their large estates in America, William and his family fled to England. Arriving in the port of Southampton they set up their new family home at Rushington Manor where they became honoured and well known. He died on 24th December 1804 and is buried in Hollybrook Cemetery, Southampton.

One son stayed behind in New York, William Bayard Jr. This William became a prominent New York City Banker, a member of the Society of the New York Hospital, and a founding member of the mercantile firm Leroy, Bayard & McEvers.

Now on to the link. Some of you may have heard of Alexander Hamilton, a musical of his life is currently on at the Mayflower Theatre. For those who have yet to see it I won’t give much away and ruin things for you. Alexander was dedicated to his beliefs and became an American Military Officer, Statesman, and Founding Father who served as the first U.S. Secretary of the Treasury from 1789 to 1795 during the presidency of George Washington, the first president of the United States. A very telling story for even those who are not interested in history. Sadly Alexander’s life ended on 12th July 1804 the day after a duel with Aaron Burr in Weehawken, New Jersey at the home of his very close friend William Bayard Jr.

So, although it is very small link, a link is still a link. Founding Father Alexander Hamilton was very close friends with the son of the owner of Rushington Manor.

The photo below is a very rare photo of Rushington Manor taken circa 1900s.

Written by Natalie Thompson

Photo courtesy of Yvonne Hanvey

Can anyone help identifying the people in this photo or a location?
24/10/2024

Can anyone help identifying the people in this photo or a location?

21/12/2023

A BALLARD OF CHRISTMAS

Twas long ago in the darkness,
Upon a donkey mild,
Mary rode into Bethlehem,
When winds were howling wild.

Old Joseph walked beside her,
Leading the ass along,
Fearsome he was for her comfort,
Although he sang a song.

Amidst the clash of the people,
The tumult of the din,
He knocked at the inn for lodging,
And there was none within

No one could give her shelter,
Only the stable bare,
Twas where she bore her nursling,
Her hope and Israel’s heir.

Shepherd and sage, they brought her,
Presents both rich and poor;
They laid them at His Infant feet,
Inside the manger door.

The Christ child is among us,
But we behold him not,
Through countless little acts of love,
Reveal His Form forgot.

He shines in the eyes of children,
Who strive His Will to do,
Through good and faithful souls who dare,
And fight for what is true.

Amid the cold and darkness,
The tumult of the din,
Joseph walked with Mary astride,
Unto the friendless inn.

Veiled in her maiden loviness,
Clothed in her robe of blue,
Nothing but virtue to guide her,
Lead her paths anew.

And because she reared her Baby,
Unto the Perfect Man,
Mothers! The world is at your feet,
For in her Christ began!

Copied as written from Easter and Christmas Poems by Ruth Abraham

24/07/2023

Update - Due to illnesses and holidays amongst the team we have been a little slower than planned to get things up and running. First on our list is to finish writing a full transcript of the Burial Registers for St Marys Churchyard and Cemetary. Once this is complete we endevour to make a searchable map to show the exact final resting place of your Ancestors. Plot numbers wernt recorded untill early-mid 1900's but with some very steady feet and a clipboard or two going back to basics, we will not give up untill we have a location for everyone. Rest assured all graves will be treated with the dignity and respect they deserve.

14/04/2023

TGIF!!

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