17/11/2025
Perspective is Everything ❤️
I've felt quite frustrated and miffed lately
I had to cancel all trip to Spain
Where I was due to meet my son and family
I had to cancel a nourishing Retreat in Wales
I've now had to cancel a trip back to France
My Second Home ❤️
But as I sat Grumping
My inner child sulking
Shouting It's not fair!
My Adult self stepped in
Reminding me the value of Rest
Talking of slowing down gently
Often it's about perspective
How we view situations
And where we view it from
Our inner child or our adult state
Instead of I can't go its not fair
It becomes I get to Rest ❤️
Sure the child feels it's unfair
But the adult state can see its value
I'm listening to my body and resting
The longer I fight it the longer healing takes
So I'm able to rest and look back
At the incredible memories I had
Whilst in France for the summer this year
The peace The warmth The lakes The people
Knowing I'll get back there when I'm ready
When does your inner child jump in
Try to notice and pay attention
When you feel the child in you surface
What feelings does the child in you bring up
Mine is Unfairness when things aren't fair
That's a signal there are childhood wounds
When we work on these wounds
We stop being triggered so often
We're able to recognise the triggers
Name them and return to our adult self
But it's also OK to stamp our feet a little
We all have that inner child within us
It's how we tend to her that's important
My inner child got to look at photos
Of time in France and to remind her
We will go back soon once we've rested
Remember to nurture your inner child ❤️
And never be afraid of a little stamp and strop!