Julia Chandler Counselling

31/08/2025

31/08/2025

24/08/2025

Toxic relationships can happen to anyone. But without boundaries, things can get terribly confusing. 😵‍💫

Unsure where the lines are, compassionate people often give chance after chance after chance.

After all, isn’t love supposed to be unconditional?

Boundaries show us our way forward.

And sometimes that means a relationship can be saved. Sometimes that means it can’t.

Boundaries help us find what’s right for us in our unique context—with love and respect for them AND love and respect for ourselves.

Because love doesn’t require you to sacrifice your self-respect.

That’s a boundary.

❤️
Molly
Therapist & Boundaries Guide

If you would love to dive deeper with this, I’m hosting a live interactive workshop for compassionate folks on The Toxic Relationship Trap on Sept 5th!

This includes leading you through a powerful intuitive art therapy exercise (sooo helpful) and staying after for Q&A.

Get details and tickets here:
❤️ Https://boundaried.com/freedom

🌏 Time zone help:
This workshop takes place
Friday, Sept 5th at:
10am Pacific (California)
12pm Central (Texas)
1pm Eastern (New York)
6pm UK
7pm Germany
8pm Kenya
9pm Dubai
10:30pm India
(Yes, there will be a replay video for those who can’t make the live — I see you, Australia)!

18/08/2025

02/08/2025

New office space!!

01/03/2025

A lovely day for counselling!

11/01/2025

Boundaries Affirmation: when we learned to keep-the-people-pleased (at all costs), we naturally develop a warped relationship with change.

As in, we can’t. 🫣

We can’t do anything to change if it might cause other people to be unhappy or uncomfortable.

And so we don’t.

Which means we push down our own needs, discount our feelings, and deny our dreams (as we continue to live lives focused on everyone else staying happy).

Until we finally break in the process.

And that’s the sad rub of it all. 💔

Either way, the changes we so desperately need are going to happen…

Whether by our choice or by our breaking.

What do you choose?

If this describes you, I’d like to share this boundaries affirmation with you today:

The changes you need are real.

And minimizing or denying them only contributes to greater suffering down the road.

You don’t have to wait until you break to give yourself permission to make needed changes.

That’s a boundary.

❤️
Molly
Therapist-turned-boundaries-guide

Would you like help discovering how to lean into the changes you know you need?

My free class offers you a powerful start (and a powerful inner boundaries tool that can really help).

Get your ticket to Fearless Boundaries right here (and watch on demand):

Https://boundaried.com/fearless 🔥

11/01/2025

Brrrr it’s a bit chilly in here today. Hope it warms up in time for clients!

25/11/2024

Be gentle with yourself ❤️

21/09/2024

22/08/2024

❤️ said with love ❤️