Pearlaroma

Pearlaroma My aim is to support those who care for loved ones, a safe space to be nurtured & listened to.

With many years experience (including life experience) as an Aromatherapist (ITEC) and Flower Essence Practitioner (BFVEA), I'm here to help with emotional and physical issues that often arise at the time of the peri-menopause and beyond. With Flower Essences and Essential Oils, I can support you during times of change and upheaval. My massage skills can help with relaxation, stress relief and tight muscles and together with products to use at home you don't need to feel out of your depth, confused or alone, I'm here to support with powerful help from nature.

Life has a strange way of changing your course, and mine is veering much down the path of Carer, as support for Clive bu...
02/02/2026

Life has a strange way of changing your course, and mine is veering much down the path of Carer, as support for Clive but also in what I may offer to others in a similar position. So the Pearlaroma page no longer feels relevant to me and will close later this week. It was started about 20 years ago to promote my products! I still make them for anyone who needs them, probably will until I just can't anymore 😅. Please contact me if you need anything.

I'll still look in on my private page, so do connect there if you'd like to stay in touch.

I'm still doing my Reiki and Flower Essences and you can contact me through my website
www.soulhaven.co.uk
or email me at chris@soulhaven.co.uk

Thank you for support and who knows, a new page may yet be created.

This beautiful Australian flower provides us with another lovely essence to help support us with worry. Meet Crowea.It b...
27/01/2026

This beautiful Australian flower provides us with another lovely essence to help support us with worry. Meet Crowea.
It brings peace, calm and clarity of feelings from continual worrying or a sense of being 'not quite right'.

There's a link in the comments for a UK supplier if you feel Crowea could help you.

Following on from earlier posts, this is a good explanation of one group of the Bach essences.
27/01/2026

Following on from earlier posts, this is a good explanation of one group of the Bach essences.

I suspect most people are. Whether it's about something or someone close to home or the world stage.When we embark on ou...
21/01/2026

I suspect most people are. Whether it's about something or someone close to home or the world stage.

When we embark on our Reiki journey we are taught 5 Principles to bring into our daily life - one is 'Just for today, do not worry'. Why? Worry is defined by the Cambridge English dictionary as "To make someone feel unhappy and frightened because of problems or unpleasant things that MIGHT happen".

It is a learnt emotion from others, our elders or the media. But by worrying about something won't make it go away, it just robs us of today's peace. It can also cloud our judgement, we get so caught up in all the variables that MAY happen, we cannot think clearly or rationally.

So just for today, don't worry. Hah, I hear you say - easier said than done. And I agree, especially with so much going on. I consciously work on this everyday, but I do have some help from Flower Essences. Over the next week I'll share a few that may bring you some support.

For today it's RED CHESTNUT, very well known from the Bach Range but also one from Saskia's Flower Essences, which is the one I am currently using.
Does this sound like you " This essence is for people who worry about others. It is for when we put too much energy into thinking about other people rather than doing things which might help. It helps us to stop worrying about things we cannot change".
A great support for parents with grown up children who have hit a bump in their path. We can't go steaming in to make it better, so we worry, this essence helps us let go and be there for when (or if) we're needed.

Like so more information or a bottle of Red Chestnut? - Then please get in touch, DM me or email chris@soulhaven.co.uk

A great opportunity to meet and listen to this lovely lady, she’s a great speaker.
20/01/2026

A great opportunity to meet and listen to this lovely lady, she’s a great speaker.

18/01/2026

Just for Today

💞💖💞

LIFE GETS EASIER
when you stop fighting it.

🌧️ The rain will fall whether you complain or stay calm.
🚗 Traffic will move slowly whether you panic or breathe.
👥 People will behave how they choose whether you worry or not.

Most of our exhaustion doesn’t come from life itself — it comes from resisting reality.

We spend so much energy arguing with what is: • “This shouldn’t be happening.” • “People should be different.” • “Life should be easier by now.”

But life doesn’t ask for permission.
It simply unfolds.

🍃 When you stop fighting the rain, you notice the cool air.
🍃 When you stop fighting traffic, your shoulders soften.
🍃 When you stop fighting people, your peace returns.

This doesn’t mean giving up.
It means choosing wisely where your energy goes.

🧭 Control what you can: • Your response
• Your breath
• Your boundaries
• Your effort
• Your integrity

🕊️ Release what you can’t: • Other people’s moods
• Their choices
• The past
• The timing of life
• Outcomes you don’t command

The moment you stop trying to control everything, life feels lighter.
Not because problems disappear — but because you stop carrying what was never yours to carry.

🌱 Acceptance is not weakness.
It’s strength without struggle.

When you breathe instead of panic…
When you allow instead of resist…
When you let go instead of cling…

✨ Life doesn’t become perfect —
but you become peaceful within it.

And from that place, everything becomes easier.

To explain how Flower Essences work I'll start with my own story. When I embarked on my Flower Essence diploma I knew th...
17/01/2026

To explain how Flower Essences work I'll start with my own story. When I embarked on my Flower Essence diploma I knew they had an effect, emotionally, because I'd used them. My first understanding break through came with the arrival of the 2nd modules essence - Red Hollyhock from the Fox Mountain range. As soon as I unwrapped it I felt a 'vibration'. I took a couple of drops 2 times a day for 30 days - I can only describe it as being 'as high as a kite' all month. It was, quite frankly, bizarre!
I was upbeat, getting on with everything, I should have been exhausted but I was just really joyful and optimistic. But some of my fellow students had very different experiences, some found it too strong and hard to take. Why the disparity? Because we were all vibrating at different frequencies at that time.
So, all living things vibrate, have a frequency. Have you ever met someone and though (with no evidence) 'I'm not sure I like you', it's because your frequencies don't match. Equally you can meet someone and immediately take to them.
When we are drawn to a flower we need that balancing frequency it can offer.
When I feel overwhelmed, then Elm Essence will bring me emotionally back into harmony, restores balance to my flustered mind.
If you ever feel like it's all too much - go and sit with an Oak tree, seriously, you'll be amazed at how different you'll feel.
This is a very simple explanation, but sometimes we can delve too deep and get confused. I know how to turn on my car and do basic jobs, like fill up with petrol or oil but I don't need to understand how it works. I use electricity but I don't question how my lights turn on.
Sometimes the best way to understand is to try it, not to use your head that is filled with questions, but to trust.
Please do pop any questions into the comments, and if you feel that you'd like some emotional balance and harmony in your life then get in touch.

This came up in my feed today, very pertinent given my posts on Essences recently. We can relate to this, as many of you...
13/01/2026

This came up in my feed today, very pertinent given my posts on Essences recently. We can relate to this, as many of you know Clive is dealing very well with a serious heart condition & loss of sight. He is, thankfully, a very positive person but this combination could easily bring anyone down. We have both been taking essences to help with the emotional change from being 2 healthy self-employed and busy people to a complete change in our retirement plans. This in turn, by supporting this challenge has allowed acceptance without resentment.

Healthy Self 🌺 Heal Thyself? Dr Edward Bach made definitive statements about his Bach flower system and expanded on this in his little book, Heal Thyself, first published in 1931. He dedicated the book ‘to all who suffer or who are in distress’ and wrote on the first page that ‘the main reason for the failure of modern medical science is that it is dealing with results and not causes’ …. which is now 90 years ago, and is not so different today.

I think in part this has been because of decades of a systemic and social construct where patients were powerless and physicians all-powerful. My grandmother and parents would never even dream of questioning their doctor; they handed over complete responsibility for their health as soon as they walked into their doctor’s office. There was limited engagement in their own healing, not to mention the doctors who were left carrying caseloads of helpless patients.

In many ways subsequent generations brought up in this medical model have been indoctrinated with a mindset that encourages us to take the health problem to someone else who will fix it. Obviously it is really necessary when, for example, we’ve a broken limb or life-threatening illness (as I know all too well). However we are more than our physical bodies. There is the energy of our emotions that informs and influences us, day in and day out.

Whatever the health crisis that is going on, your emotions are at play. There’s the shock, fears, disbelief, denial, resignation, resentment, rage… could be anything, which also can play havoc with your thoughts — such as being hyper-vigilant or like a hamster on a wheel. There is an imperative to give our emotions due attention too.

When we are emotionally invested in addressing what ails us, in effect becoming truly engaged in our own healing process, then shifts will begin to occur. Everything is connected. We are not a mechanistic collection of disparate parts.

To heal it is necessary to create a synergy between the physical, emotional, mental and the spiritual body. The Bach flowers offer us the opportunity to find that pathway. That whatever the stage of ill-health ‘— dis-ease’ — we may be experiencing, there is a way to find peace of mind, of letting go to enable the transformation of emotions which have compromised us, quite possibly, for decades. Emotions that we have carried so deeply and are so familiar that we think ‘it's just how I am’ — instead of realising it’s an aspect of you, yet not the whole you. Instead consider that maybe your entrenched view is actually a call to interrogate, to identify what recalibration might be needed to avoid being sabotaged by poor health.

What I’ve found is that even when I think I’ve got it sorted, there’ll be another nuance, another layer that requires my attention — and if I pay heed and go into action (excuses are very seductive) I’m straight to my Bach box and creating a mix. I journal, meditate, go for long walks, reflect, notice what I notice.

Each one of us is a work in progress. With a holistic perspective and engaging in our own healing process by drawing on Dr Bach’s simple system of self-help, we can complement what the most dedicated physicians and surgeons offer us when we need their interventions.

Dr Bach’s writings can inspire some, and not others. However, the Bach flowers are simply there for everyone.🌺

What is your experience of Bach flowers with your health? Which gem of insight have discovered from Dr Bach's writings?🌺

Here is the 2nd post relating to the constitutional essences with the final 4 flowers.As previously mentioned he is the ...
12/01/2026

Here is the 2nd post relating to the constitutional essences with the final 4 flowers.
As previously mentioned he is the link to a short video about each one to give you more information.
https://www.bachflowerlearning.com/contents/flower-essences/

Please DM if you'd like further information or to take up my offer of a 25% discount on a bottle of your chosen essence. 💕

There are 2 posts covering the 12 Flowers, I've had to keep the descriptions short due to room!However if you would like...
12/01/2026

There are 2 posts covering the 12 Flowers, I've had to keep the descriptions short due to room!
However if you would like to explore your Flower further here's a link to a short video
https://www.bachflowerlearning.com/contents/flower-essences/

Why bother? Well to use my own example - Impatiens - by not bringing this into balance I run the risk of upsetting people, even close friends and family. But there is also the harm that this is doing to me - it's very stressful being impatient, and could eventually impact on me physically and mentally.
Another good example is Centuary, they seem happy to serve but what is often happening is that resentment is building up.

I hope you've found this interesting, please DM if you'd like further information and as a New Year gift, for January, I'm offering 25% off a bottle of your chosen essence (plus postage if applicable).

The final 4 flowers for you to peruse. Have you been drawn to any of them?Tomorrow I will post some basic details about ...
11/01/2026

The final 4 flowers for you to peruse. Have you been drawn to any of them?
Tomorrow I will post some basic details about each Essence and how it may help you.

2nd of 3 posts. any of these call to you?
11/01/2026

2nd of 3 posts. any of these call to you?

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