Richard Green Funeral Service

09/12/2025

🌟 𝕊𝕦𝕡𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕤𝕠𝕞𝕖𝕠𝕟𝕖 𝕨𝕙𝕠 𝕚𝕤 𝕘𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕧𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕔𝕙𝕣𝕚𝕤𝕥𝕞𝕒𝕤

Christmas can be a painful time for many, especially when someone they love is missing. If you’re not sure how to support someone who is grieving, these gentle reminders can help:

🕯️ Say something, not nothing
It’s natural to worry about saying the wrong thing, but silence can make people feel more alone. A simple “I’m thinking of you” can mean so much.

🕯️ Listen — you don’t need to fix anything
Let them talk, without rushing to give advice or share your own experiences. Small acknowledgements like “I hear you” or repeating back what you’ve understood can make them feel truly seen.

🕯️ Talk about the person who died
Many people find comfort in hearing their loved one’s name, sharing memories, or telling the story of what happened — sometimes more than once. Follow their lead.

🕯️ Offer specific help
Grief drains energy. Instead of “Let me know if you need anything,” try:
• “I’ll drop off a meal tomorrow.”
• “I can collect the children from school on Tuesday.”
• “I’ll call Thursday at 7pm — answer if you feel up to it.”

🕯️ Be honest about what you can manage
If you offer support, make sure it’s something you can genuinely provide. Don’t promise more than you can deliver.

🕯️ If you get it wrong, gently apologise
No one knows exactly what to say every time. Grief is unpredictable. Kindness and presence matter more than perfect words.

🕯️ Keep showing up — even after Christmas
Support often fades after the funeral, but grief doesn’t. Check in weeks and months later. Remember important dates. Let them know their loved one is still remembered.

𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 — 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲, 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧.

04/12/2025

🎄 We at Richard Green Funeral Service are pleased to be a part of the Holy Cross Church Uckfield Festival of Christmas Trees this weekend!

We have our own uniquely decorated tree on display at this wonderful community event, joining over 100 beautifully crafted trees from local groups and businesses.

Come along and soak up the festive atmosphere with seasonal music, local entertainment, tasty refreshments, and plenty of Christmas cheer ✨

02/12/2025

Today marks the beginning of 2025.

This year it is from 2nd–8th December, this annual campaign enters its seventh year of raising awareness of the impact of grief and loss across the UK.

At Richard Green Funeral Service, we stand alongside all those who are grieving, and we join The Good Grief Trust in supporting this year’s theme: “Growing with Grief.”

This message reminds us that while losing someone we love can feel like an ending, it can also be the ground from which new strength and understanding slowly grow. Though we cannot return to who we were before our loss, we can, in time, become someone shaped by love, memories, resilience, and renewed hope.

Grief does not disappear—but neither does our capacity to heal, to connect, and to find meaning again. We hope this week brings new hope, new connections, and deeper understanding for everyone navigating life after loss.
You are not alone.
If you need support, we are here to help.

https://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org/ngaw/

01/12/2025

𝐂𝐨𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐆𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐚𝐭 𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐚𝐬

For many, Christmas is a time of warmth and celebration, but when you’re grieving, it can be one of the hardest times of the year. Whether this is your first Christmas without someone you love, or many years have passed, the festive season can bring emotions to the surface in unexpected ways. At Richard Green Funeral Service, we want you to know that you’re not alone, and there is no “right” way to feel.

𝚃𝚊𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚌𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝙲𝚑𝚛𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚖𝚊𝚜
✨ Celebrate differently or not at all
Some people find comfort in keeping cherished traditions; others prefer a quieter day or choose not to celebrate. Do whatever feels right for you, without pressure or expectations.
✨ Find gentle ways to remember them
Visit a place that was special to them, look through old photos or light a candle. Acts of remembrance, big or small, can bring comfort.
✨ Understand that everyone grieves differently
Family and friends may want to mark the day in their own ways. Open conversations and patience with one another can prevent misunderstandings at an already emotional time.
✨ Try to keep some routine
Sleep, rest, meals, and fresh air can help support you through the season, even when your mind and heart feel heavy
✨ Be kind to yourself
If you find yourself struggling, reaching out for support is a strength, not a weakness. Talk to someone if you can. You don’t have to carry everything alone.
✨ Limit what overwhelms you
Happy holiday images on TV and social media can feel painful. Taking time away, stepping outside, or creating a quieter space can bring relief.
✨ Allow every emotion
Sadness, anger, numbness, even moments of laughter — all are natural. Grief doesn’t pause for Christmas and whatever you feel is valid.

𝚆𝚊𝚢𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚛𝚎𝚖𝚎𝚖𝚋𝚎𝚛 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚊𝚝 𝙲𝚑𝚛𝚒𝚜𝚝𝚖𝚊𝚜
🎄 Choose a decoration in their honour
🎁 Buy them a small gift or write them a card
💝 Treat yourself to something they would have chosen for you
🎬 Do something they enjoyed — watch their favourite film or visit a special place
🗣 Share a memory or story with others

If you’re finding this season difficult, we are here with compassion, understanding, and support — at Christmas and always.

26/11/2025

20/11/2025

Honouring a Life Through Giving 🤍

Instead of flowers, many families choose to honour their loved ones by donating to a charity that reflects their passions or values.
It’s a heartfelt way to celebrate a life and make a difference.

Ways to Choose a Meaningful Charity:
🕯 Consider Personal Experiences: Donations can also support causes linked to their life story, including health conditions or challenges they faced.

🕯 Look at Their Interests: Think about what mattered most to them—hobbies, career, or causes they cared about. A teacher might be remembered through youth education, or a nature lover through wildlife conservation.

🕯 Local or Wider Reach: Local charities offer a tangible, visible impact, while national or international charities can support broader initiatives.

🕯 Ensure Credibility: Make sure donations are used responsibly by checking reputable sources such as the Charity Commission (UK).

If you’re unsure where to start, guidance is available to help you find a charity that feels right and we are here to support you in making the right decision.

Through our website, we can create a memorial page to honour your loved one, share photos, and collect messages from donors—all while managing donations easily and at no extra cost.

14/11/2025

IT'S FSW Family Support Work Friday!

Many of us will be very fortunate this Christmas, we'll wake up and there'll be presents under the tree and lots of food to eat.

Unfortunately, some families in Sussex will be struggling to feed their children let alone have money to buy presents.

If you can donate any of the items on this list then we would be extremely grateful. Let us make Christmas special for those children and families who are going through extremely hard times.

Every Friday you can leave donations for F.S.W. in our church between 9:30 a.m. and 4 p.m. (Please ensure all food is within date and note we cannot accept fresh/chilled/frozen items. Please do not gift wrap any gifts as each item needs to be checked.)

If you would like any further information, please do not hesitate to leave us a message or comment below.

14/11/2025

14/11/2025

Another day means another opportunity to share the next group of Christmas tree sponsors at this year's Festival! Please join us in welcoming these wonderful, local organisations and be sure to come along and see what beautiful creations they have planned for their trees!

🌲Premier Travel
Premier Travel Uckfield
www.premier-travel.co.uk

🌲RB Arts Academy
RB Arts Academy
www.rbartsacademy.com

🌲Repair Cafe Uckfield
Repair Café Uckfield
www.sussexsupportservice.com/repaircafe.html

🌲Resolute Martial Arts
Resolute Martial Arts
www.resolutemartialarts.co.uk

🌲Richard Green Funeral Service
Richard Green Funeral Service
www.rgreenfs.co.uk

🌲Ridgewood Care Services
www.ridgewoodcareservices.co.uk

🌲Ridgewood Village Hall
Ridgewood Village Hall
www.ridgewoodvillagehall.wixsite.com/uckfield

🌲Rocks Park Primary School
www.rockspark.e-sussex.sch.uk

11/11/2025

Today, we pause to remember and honour the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our country.

Their courage and selflessness will never be forgotten.

Lest we forget.