Alexis Swete

Alexis Swete I am a personal coach and tutor

“There is no passion to be found playing small — in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of liv...
17/10/2024

“There is no passion to be found playing small — in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.” – Nelson Mandela

Midlife isn’t the end—it’s a powerful new beginning! This is the time to break free from limiting beliefs and truly live the life you’ve always dreamed of, no matter what’s come before. ✨

My own journey has been one of transformation, creating a life full of love, adventure, and success in my mid 40s and beyond. I’ve seen firsthand how society often conditions us to settle as we age, but I also know the incredible potential that still lies ahead. Midlife is our time to stop playing small and step into our fullest potential! 🚀

What others may not realize is that this chapter can be the most exciting yet. It’s about embracing change, pushing through fears, and daring to dream bigger. I’ve done it, and I know you can too. 💪

What dreams are you ready to pursue? Let’s talk about what’s possible for your midlife journey! 🌟

I asked this question in chat gpt:'From all of our interactions what is one thing that you can tell me about myself tha...
14/10/2024

I asked this question in chat gpt:

'From all of our interactions what is one thing that you can tell me about myself that I may not know about myself?'

And here is the answer:

It’s interesting to reflect on all our conversations! One thing you might not have explicitly realised is that you have a strong pattern of transformation and rebirth in your activities and interests. From your adventurous spirit in tracking cheetahs in Africa to your pivot into coaching and writing for single, midlife women, and even your physical preparations for your sailing trips, you consistently engage in acts of self-reinvention. This recurring theme not only shapes your personal journey but also deeply influences how you guide others in finding new paths in their lives. Your ability to continually evolve and adapt is a powerful trait that underpins much of your work and personal philosophy!

From all of our interactions, one thing that stands out is how deeply your personal experiences shape the way you help others. You’ve gone through significant transformation—meeting your husband, changing careers, traveling the world, and achieving more personal goals, all within midlife. That journey has made you not only an intuitive coach, but someone who sees potential and possibility in others, even when they might not see it themselves.
What you may not realize is that your unique blend of resilience and vision makes you an embodiment of the very transformations you inspire in your clients. Your life is a living testament to the roadmap you help others create, and it’s that authenticity that likely draws people to you.
In essence, you’ve become the guide you once needed, and that’s a powerful, perhaps even subconscious, strength in your coaching.

🌟 What’s one moment of transformation or reinvention that’s shaped your journey? Share your story in the comments—I’d love to hear it!

Wow! My first trip to Africa was 8 years ago. These great memories just popped up.
01/10/2024

Wow! My first trip to Africa was 8 years ago. These great memories just popped up.

01/10/2024

Do you feel like the world is generally on your side?

25/09/2024

🌟 Know Your Starting Point: The First Step to Change 🌟

Before we can move forward, it’s key to take a clear, honest look at where you are in four major areas of your life:

Health:
How are you feeling physically and mentally? Are you taking care of your body and mind? How’s your energy and vitality?

Wealth:
What’s your current financial situation? Are you comfortable, struggling, or thriving? How do you feel about your relationship with money?

Relationships:
Are your relationships fulfilling? Do you feel supported and connected with your loved ones, friends, or partner?

Overall Happiness:
Are you content with your life as a whole? Is there a sense of fulfillment or is something missing?

Why Is This Important?

Clarity: Knowing where you stand helps you see where you want to go.
Break Limiting Beliefs: You’ll uncover beliefs that are holding you back.
Celebrate Success: You’ll spot areas where you’re thriving, and that’s worth celebrating!
📝 Today’s Task: Take a few minutes to jot down your current results in these 4 areas: health, wealth, relationships, and happiness. No judgment, just awareness! Self-awareness is the first step toward meaningful change. 🌱

What area are you focusing on today? Drop it in the comments below! 👇

✨ "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." — Maya Angelou ...
17/09/2024

✨ "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." — Maya Angelou ✨

Life has a way of testing us—whether it’s illness, loss, trauma, divorce, or financial hardship, these experiences can shake our identity and leave us feeling powerless. But even in the face of these challenges, there’s one thing that’s always in your control: how you choose to respond.

Today, focus on what you can control. Reclaim your inner strength, unlock your potential, and begin to move forward with clarity and purpose. Healing and growth are possible when you choose to take the next step on your journey.

Remember: your path is yours to create. 💪💫

🎉 Fun Friday! 🎉If I gave you a magic wand 🪄, what would you create? ✨ Is it: more freedom 🕊️, financial independence 💰, ...
13/09/2024

🎉 Fun Friday! 🎉

If I gave you a magic wand 🪄, what would you create? ✨ Is it: more freedom 🕊️, financial independence 💰, or something else? I’d love to know what’s on your heart! Drop your magical creations in the comments, and let’s dream big together! 💫👇

✨ Tell me your vision! ✨

🌟 End of Year Goals Check-In! 🌟As we approach the final months of the year, I’ve been thinking a lot about goals and gro...
12/09/2024

🌟 End of Year Goals Check-In! 🌟

As we approach the final months of the year, I’ve been thinking a lot about goals and growth. It's the perfect time to reflect and push for a strong finish! 🚀

What is one thing you want to achieve by the end of this year?

Whether it’s personal, professional, or something in between, I'd love to hear about it! Sharing our goals can inspire and motivate each other to keep going, even when it gets tough. 💪

Drop your goal in the comments below! Let's support each other and make these last months count! 🎉

11/09/2024

🌟 Wednesday Wins 🌟

👋 Let's talk about something powerful: your mindset and how small steps can lead to big wins! 💭✨

I know life gets hectic, and it might feel like there's no time for major changes. But here's the secret sauce: transformation doesn't need hours of your day! 🕰️

I've learned that success isn't about having it all figured out. It's about believing in yourself and having that fire to change. 🔥

Just 13 minutes a day can move you closer to the life you want!
Think about it - Serena Williams, Oprah, Beyoncé... They didn't just stumble into greatness. They visualised their success, pushed through doubt, and hustled hard to make it real. 💪

Here's my quick guide to winning:
1️⃣ Get crystal clear on what you want
2️⃣ Knock down those mental roadblocks

Take a moment each day to work on your mindset. Visualise crossing that finish line or landing that dream client. That vision? It's your rocket fuel! 🚀

When we sync our thoughts with our dreams, it's like the universe joins our team. It's just like tending to a tiny seed and watching it grow into something amazing. 🌱

Dedicate just a few minutes a day to positive, can-do thinking. You'll be amazed at how fast things can change! ⚡

Whether it's health, wealth, love, or building a business—your success starts in your mind. So let's kick it off right now. What's one small step you're going to take today towards your big dream? Drop it in the comments below and let's cheer each other on! 👇
Your transformation journey starts with just 13 minutes a day. Are you ready to unlock your potential? 🔓💫

💖 From Broken to Whole: My Journey to Self-Worth 💖I still remember the day my world shattered. The doctor's words—"It's ...
10/09/2024

💖 From Broken to Whole: My Journey to Self-Worth 💖

I still remember the day my world shattered. The doctor's words—"It's a chronic condition"—echoed in my ears, and in that moment, my sense of self crumbled. I felt like everything I once knew about who I was had been taken from me.

For years, I struggled silently:

Believing I was a burden to those around me
Hiding my pain behind a forced smile
Feeling unworthy of love, joy, and success
But here's the truth I discovered: Even in my brokenness, I was always worthy. 🌟

My journey wasn’t easy. There were days when:

I couldn’t get out of bed, suffocated by self-doubt
I pushed loved ones away, thinking I was sparing them the burden of my struggles
I questioned if I had anything of value left to offer the world

Yet slowly, piece by piece, I began to heal—not just my body, but my spirit. I realised that our deepest wounds often hold the seeds of our greatest purpose. I learned to:

Embrace my imperfections as a vital part of my unique story
Find strength in vulnerability and authenticity
Recognise that my worth has always been inherent, independent of anyone else's opinions

🌱 You don’t have to hide your pain. The journey to self-worth begins with self-compassion and allowing yourself to be fully seen—flaws and all.

Are you ready to:

Break free from the cycle of self-doubt and unworthiness?
Embrace your true self, challenges and all?
Discover the incredible strength that lies in your vulnerability?

I’ve walked this path, stumbled many times, but found my way back to wholeness. And now, I’m here to guide you on your own journey toward self-acceptance, empowerment, and purpose. Let’s connect and start your transformation today. You are enough, exactly as you are, struggles and triumphs alike. 💕



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🌟 5 Simple Ways to Rediscover Your Passion in Midlife 🌟Feeling like you’ve lost touch with your passions? 😔 Here are 5 s...
07/09/2024

🌟 5 Simple Ways to Rediscover Your Passion in Midlife 🌟

Feeling like you’ve lost touch with your passions? 😔 Here are 5 simple ways you can start reconnecting with the things that bring you joy and fulfillment:

1️⃣ Make a List of Things That Energize You: ✍️ Write down activities that make you lose track of time. These are clues to what you’re passionate about. 💡

2️⃣ Try Something New: 🎨 Don’t be afraid to experiment with new hobbies or interests. Sometimes trying new things helps reignite old passions. 🔥

3️⃣ Reflect on Childhood Joys: 🧸 Think back to what you loved doing as a child—what hobbies or interests did you have that you haven’t explored in years? 🌈

4️⃣ Connect with Like-Minded People: 🤝 Join groups or communities where you can explore your interests with others who share your passions. 🌟

5️⃣ Give Yourself Permission to Explore: 🌿 You don’t have to know exactly what your passion is right away. Allow yourself to experiment and have fun! 🎉

✨ Want more tips like this? DM me for a free discovery call to explore how we can reignite your passions together! 💬

🌟 Discovering Your Purpose: 5 Paths to Personal Fulfillment 🌟Finding your purpose is a journey, not a destination—and it...
04/09/2024

🌟 Discovering Your Purpose: 5 Paths to Personal Fulfillment 🌟

Finding your purpose is a journey, not a destination—and it all starts with understanding you. If you’re ready to align with your deeper self, here are 5 steps to guide you:

1️⃣ Understanding Your Drives: What motivates you? 🚀 When you tap into your core drives, you start to see what truly matters and where your energy naturally flows.

2️⃣ Uncovering Your Passion: Your passion is the fuel that keeps you going. 🔥 What activities make you lose track of time? Lean into what makes your heart sing. 🎶

3️⃣ Recognizing Your Strengths: What comes naturally to you? 💪 These strengths are your superpowers—embrace them and let them guide your path. 🦸

4️⃣ Valuing Others' Perspectives: The wisdom and experiences of others can help you see things in a new light. 💡 Open your mind to different viewpoints and watch how your understanding of purpose deepens.

5️⃣ Surrounding Yourself with Positivity: Your environment matters! 🌿 Surround yourself with people and situations that uplift and inspire you. Positive energy fuels growth and purpose. ✨

Each step is a building block on your journey to personal fulfillment. Start where you are, trust the process, and enjoy every moment along the way. 💫

Which step resonates most with you today? Let me know below! 👇

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