27/12/2021
Ah the beige buffet. What a love / hate relationship we have with it.
This time of year there's definitely no shortage of beige buffets and party food.
And while for many, the idea of loads of party food fills them with excitement, it also fills a lot of people who struggle around food with a lot of anxiety.
It probably goes a little something like this:
You tell yourself either you're not going to have any at all, or maybe you tell yourself you'll be 'good' and only have the 'healthier' bits, or maybe just a small amount.
You might tell yourself you're not going to get a plate, because in your mind, then you're actually committing to eating all this food you told yourself for some reason you shouldn't have.
But you stand by the table, you pick at a bit of it, then grab a bit more. Then, okay this is the last time, just one more thing. Then before you know it you can't stop, you think 'f**k it' and just lose all sense of control.
So not only have you now eaten the same amount that you would have if you just actually told yourself at the start you could have just had a plate full. But you probably didn't enjoy it because the whole thing was fuelled with guilt.
So next time, just challenge yourself to give yourself permission to take a plate of food, maybe even two. Be sure to take some of the bits you know you really really want too!! Because guess what - if you're going to end up eating it anyway then you might as well do it and actually ENJOY it!