01/05/2026
Funny old creatures us humans, aren’t we?!
We are bloody great at deflecting responsibility
Passing the book
Blaming everything and everyone else for our lack of results
Except ourselves though, right?!
It can’t possibly have anything to do with what we are doing though
Don’t be ridiculous
So in a pursuit to confirm our own bias, we come up with these weird and wonderful excuses to make ourselves feel better
That it’s ok to have not done the thing we know deep down we really should have done
But what is all this actually achieving?
Maybe it eases the pressure for a bit
Outta sight, outta mind?
But in the long run, kicking the can down the road is just going to make the inevitable changes you are going to have to make at some point, much much harder to carry out
This is what Amy used to do before working with me
She’d put up every barrier up possible as to why she couldn’t do (insert task she’d avoid)
But what if I told you that during working with me, life ironically, got even harder and more hectic
So how the heck did she see the most progress she ever had done during this more chaotic time?
Well, to put it simply, she stepped up
Took more of that all important responsibility that she had been avoiding taking for so long
And realised that the results she was after was on the other side of the handwork that she’d been avoiding for so long
When you start trying to help yourself instead of always giving yourself a pass, truly life changing s**t starts to happen
Not just physically
But more mentality and resilience wise too
You are a lot more robust than you think
And you certainly can push the envelope harder than you’ve done before
Sometimes though, it takes someone to show you that for you to finally believe it for yourself
I’m that guy who can show you 🤝