31/01/2026
This one is for you whether you’re experiencing changes in your own body
or
you’re watching someone you care about go through them and wondering what on earth is going on.
If menopause has crept up quietly and left you thinking,
“Why do I feel so different… and when did this even start?”
or
“Why does my partner seem more tired, foggy, or unlike herself lately?”
you’re not imagining it.
Most of us are taught that menopause is something that happens in the late 40s or 50s. Periods stop. A few hot flushes. End of story.
But the truth is… that’s not how it usually begins.
Menopause is not a single moment.
It’s a transition.
For many women, changes start years earlier. Sometimes in the late 30s or early 40s. Energy dips. Sleep becomes broken. Motivation disappears. Weight feels harder to manage. Emotions feel closer to the surface. And often, there’s no clear explanation given.
This phase is often called perimenopause, and it can last for several years.
Because it’s gradual, it’s easy to miss. Or to misunderstand.
Women may blame themselves.
Partners may feel confused, helpless, or unsure how to support.
I see this all the time in my work. Strong, capable women doing everything they’ve always done… yet feeling frustrated, flat, or disconnected from themselves. And partners who want to help but don’t know what’s actually happening.
So if you’ve ever thought,
“Why isn’t my body responding like it used to?”
or
“I can tell something’s changed, but I don’t know how to help.”
Please hear this:
Nothing is wrong.
No one is broken.
And no one is failing.
This is a natural stage of life that we simply aren’t educated enough about.
Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing simple, supportive insights into what’s happening during menopause and how small changes, especially around food, movement, and self-care, can make a real difference. Not just for women going through it, but for the people supporting them too.
No extremes. No pressure. Just understanding, compassion, and practical support.
For now, let this land:
Awareness changes everything. And understanding brings relief.
More soon 💙