05/06/2025
"If you don’t look, you don’t see"
That’s something I’ve said for a long time, and sadly, it’s never been more relevant.
Local authority occupational therapists often aren’t trained to assess children’s sensory processing needs. So they don’t assess them. And because they don’t assess them, they don’t see them. That means no recognition, no support, no strategies, and no therapy.
Now, government officials are openly saying they want to reduce reliance on specialist assessments and interventions for adopted and care-experienced children. In other words, they’re planning to stop looking.
Because if they don’t look, they don’t have to see.
If they don’t see, they don’t have to act.
If they don’t act, they don’t have to provide support.
And today, we heard something even more concerning. Sarah Johal suggested that adoptive families have become “over-reliant” on specialist support, claiming that the Adoption Support Fund has “almost created [an idea] that families feel they are entitled to therapeutic support, no matter whether the children need it or not.”
Let’s be clear: adoptive parents are not asking for therapy because it’s a luxury. They are asking for it because children have experienced significant trauma, loss, and often early-life adversity. Many of their needs appear invisible unless you 'look'. Children hide their true selves through fear and for survival. Specialist assessments are often the only way true needs are properly identified.
To imply that families are demanding unnecessary support is not only dismissive, it’s dangerous. It fuels a narrative that children’s struggles are exaggerated, when in truth, they are often underestimated, unseen, and unsupported.
Our parents deserve respect. They are not asking for handouts -they are asking for healing. They fight every day for the children they love, often in the face of immense misunderstanding and systemic neglect.
Our children deserve to be seen. They deserve to be heard. And they deserve a system that doesn’t turn a blind eye simply because looking too closely might come with a cost.
Because if we choose not to look, we choose not to care. And our children, all of them - deserve better than that."
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