24/03/2026
Parents often tell us: “School say they’re fine” but at home we see meltdowns.
Exhaustion. Anger. Complete shutdown.
This doesn’t mean a child is “choosing” to behave differently.
It often means they’ve used everything they have just to get through the school day.
What you see at home is not the problem. It’s the release.
Supporting your child, reducing pressure and having open conversations with school can make a huge difference.
This is not about children learning to cope with more or normalising the struggle. Over time, this level of effort takes a real toll.
Every child copes differently and what looks like “fine” in one environment may be costing them far more than we realise. It’s about helping them feel safe enough that they don’t have to work so hard just to hold it together.
When parents, schools and professionals work together to understand where a child is struggling, we can create the right support around them leading to more positive, sustainable outcomes.