15/04/2026
I'm currently on some training with someone I really respect and this is a quote she said at the start.
It really struck me that more people need to hear this today, so this one is for you if it resonates.
Not every day needs to be your personal best. No days need to be what you see as someone else's personal best.
Each day will vary in how much you can do when it comes to challenging your OCD.
This will be impacted by your hormones, how you slept, what has happened that day, the mood of those around you, your general mood and thoughts, and a whole host of other things.
So there is nothing to say that you should be able to achieve the same things on 2 different days. Even though we aim to consistently challenge compulsions, over-analysing signs of going 'backwards' can also impact on the OCD and self-criticism does the opposite of motivating you to do any better anyway.
Perhaps we should all focus on what we feel able to do today, no matter how big or small, instead of comparing it to other days and other people? And if we do notice not being able to consistently challenge something, bringing this up with curiosity to problem solve, instead of criticising or panicking around it?
What do you think?