
13/07/2025
All the Barbie vibes for my sister in laws birthday party last night ππΈπ
The theme was childhood nostalgia so it was a close call between Britney and Barbie π€
Anyway, first thoughts when I put this outfit on were 'omg I can't wear this' and 'what will people think?'
These thoughts aren't a bad thing, they're just thoughts because I was feeling uncomfortable but they passed after I reassured myself and challenged the thoughts with responses like 'you look great', 'wear it' and 'who cares if anyone does think anything'.
Then a typical thought would be 'I'll be fine when I've had a few drinks, I won't even care then' - so I stayed sober to show myself i don't need to drink to create confidence πͺπ
Plus it's bloody hot so as little clothing as possible was ideal π
Becoming comfortable in your own skin is a journey and it takes time and practice. We all have a little self doubt at times but challenging it will reduce the power it has.
Wear the shorts
Wear the crop top
Stop trying to hide yourself away
Stand out
Learn to be comfortable in your own skin
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