Together Forever

17/06/2024

THOUGHT FOR TODAY -
RELEASE YOUR FAITH AND DON'T GIVE UP

Yes, life can be hard sometimes, and you can feel like giving up. Don't give up, and don't despair, because no matter what it is, it will not last forever. Just release your faith and see God work it out for you. So, what is FAITH?

F - Fantastic
A - Adventure
I - In
T- Trusting
H – Him

Go on this ADVENTURE and PUSH persistently, and you will see the hand of God at work in your life.

P - Pray
U - Until
S - Something
H - Happens

Giving up is not an option.
Have a FAITH-filled Day, and don't forget to PUSH!
Shalom!
E. Ngozi Okike.

17/06/2024

RELEASE YOUR FAITH AND DON'T GIVE UP

Yes, life can be hard sometimes and you can feel like giving up. Don't give up, and don't despair, because no matter what it is, it will not last forever. Just release your faith and see God work it out for you. So what is FAITH?

F - Fantastic
A - Adventure
I - In
T- Trusting
H - Him

Go on this ADVENTURE and PUSH persistently, and you will see the hand of God at work in your life.

P - Pray
U - Until
S - Something
H - Happens

Giving up is not an option.

Have a FAITH-filled Day, and don't forget to PUSH!

Shalom!
E. Ngozi Okike.

18/01/2022

Do you get this, ladies?

08/12/2021

OVER 45YEARS MARRIED AND STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE
- Patti

Stephen Komlosy and me on our in

My heart skips a beat when I look at this and I bless my God, who brought this perfect Prince of a man into my life over 45years ago.

Believe me, it was not a smooth ride. There is no such thing as a free lunch or easy ride in life. There were children, family, media nastiness and the world to battle through. We went through it all and came out more in love than ever.

In the mid and early our union was not so welcomed. All I knew was I had met the man with the exact character I had always prayed for as a child, the only difference is that he was not Nigerian.

All praise to God, who knows colour has nothing to do with the spirit, soul or heart.
When my (not so easy) mother gave her blessing in these prophetic words "Yours will be the best marriage......" no amount of nastiness, bitching nor scheming from outside forces could interfere with our love and dedication to each other. Now I know the more they tried the more they made our love stronger.

His love for his children was the big factor too, for me. And then when we received a Special Dispensation from His Holiness Pope (Saint) John Paul ll to get married in the Catholic Church, we were fully united in body, mind and spirit.

As for money, we have had lots of it, lost it, built it up again, lost it and built it up again. I have never and would not compromise my marriage, husband, family, happiness or integrity for money or career. Money and career come and go but a great marriage and family is priceless and to be treasured above all.

As a wife, a mother and grandmother I am no pushover, but a fierce defender of my family. Maybe that's why my Stephen comes out as the star of my autobiography alongside my wonderful Mother.
It can only be God. I am blessed.

11/11/2021

WHY DO YOU NEED TO PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE?

This interview with a seasoned couple gives us a snapshot of reasons why it is important for two entirely different individuals who come together in marriage, and wish to spend the rest of their lives together, adequately prepare for this journey. When you want to go on holiday, you make plans well ahead of time, of the mode of travel, where you would stay, what you would do and so on. If we make plans for such an activity to ensure that everything goes well, why is it that some of us make no effort whatsoever to prepare for marriage? Most women look forward to their wedding day, with much delight and anticipation. They want the day to be just perfect - the wedding of their dreams. If only some of them spend just half the time and energy they put into planning the wedding day, into preparing to be married, then incidences of divorce will be minimal.

Please watch this video, like and share it, and leave your comments.
https://youtu.be/JGFyup_5kIE
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Why do you need to prepare for marriage? This interview with a seasoned couple gives us a snapshot of reasons why it is important for two entirely different ...

08/11/2021

Hey Friends!

I’ve got a quick announcement (and question) for you today… 😁

Some of you would have probably seen my YouTube video series - TOGETHER FOREVER: UNLOCKING THE SECRETS TO LIFELONG MARRIAGE❤️.

As I mentioned in the introductory video, it's a subject I've been very passionate about for over two decades. I recall that as far back as 2001 I started writing some blogs or articles with the title 'TOGETHER FOREVER'👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨.

You can't believe how those articles were instrumental in saving many marriages that were hanging in the balance. Besides, my husband and I have been involved in marriage counselling for many years, and God has used us to save quite a few🙌🏼.

My own marriage that was going to fall apart after just one week💔, has flourished for 42+ years💖. How did that happen? What's the secret?🤫 I have shared some of the secrets to lifelong marriage, in my award-winning book, TOGETHER FOREVER: 15 SECRETS TO LIVELONG MARRIAGE🏆📚.

Research shows that broken relationships affect all those concerned, especially where children are involved🙁😔. Even the financial cost to society, which in 2018 in the UK was £5.6 billions, exceeding the cost of UK defence, makes it imperative that something needs to be done about it. I cannot even begin to describe how passionate I am about the subject💞.

So, I’m finally doing something about it! 🙌

I’m actually writing another book and putting together a programme to help professionals who are married and intending couples, to avoid imminent problems in marriage so they can cultivate and nurture a long-lasting relationship. The proposed title for the Programme is 'ONE SPOUSE FOR LIFE: HOW TO BUILD A STRONG MARRIAGE THAT LASTS A LIFETIME'.❤️💖

And before I get too far down the tracks with this “passion project”, I want to get some honest feedback on a few of the ideas…

So, if you’re a professional who is married or intending to be married...

Would you be willing to do me a HUGE favour???

If so, drop a Comment below that says “Interview”...

And I’ll private message you a link where you can schedule a 15-minute call with me.

It’s just a few questions and it’s of course totally confidential. ✅

If this is something you could help me out with, it would mean the world to me! 💛

Either way, thank you so much for your prayers and support!👋🏼

Gratefully,
E. Okike

13/09/2021

PLEASE HELP! MY MARRIAGE IS IN TROUBLE - HOW CAN I GET IT TO WORK?

The institution of marriage is under threat. Why is this so? What did God have in mind when He decided that it wasn't good for man to be alone? Why are many marriages fallen apart? And what do broken relationships cost the government? How can we get our marriages to work as God intended?

Please watch this video for answers to some of these questions.
https://youtu.be/BVzZT7qWCMA

The marriage institution is facing many challenges these days, and failed marriages are costing the government so much. Why are many marriages in trouble? Wh...

07/09/2021

WHY MY MARRIAGE FAILED

When you buy an equipment, it comes with a manual instructing you on how to use the equipment to get the best out of it. It'll be fool hardy to try to use a new equipment without first studying the manual on how to use it, or how to assemble it, if it is one requiring to be assembled. Similarly, you wouldn't want to be treated by a doctor who never went to medical school to study, nor would you invite someone to fix your plumbing problem, who never learnt how to be a plumber. We spend years at university or college learning a trade or a profession, but many of us get into marriage and think it will succeed without learning how to be married, and stay married. Research has shown that one of the reasons that many marriages fail is the lack of preparation for marriage. Marriage is like any trade or profession. You have to learn how to be married and continue to learn how to stay married. It's a life-long process.

Please watch this video to find out why your marriage or that of someone that you know, probably failed. And in this video series, I'll be sharing with you secrets of how to stay married together, forever. You can also get a copy of my award-winning book, TOGETHER FOREVER: 15 SECRETS TO LIFELONG MARRIAGE on amazon.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/TOGETHER-FOREVER.../dp/B084Z8F4DT
It is also available on amazon.com:
https://tinyurl.com/eknzkfyd
https://youtu.be/S5iZKGyeAbI

When you buy an equipment, it comes with a manual instructing you on how to use the equipment to get the best out of it. It'll be fool hardy to try to use a ...

26/07/2021

HOW ARE YOU KNOWN

The sincerity of a Husband is known during the sickness of his Wife.

The sincerity of a Wife is known during the financial difficulty of her Husband.

True Love of Children is known during the old age of their Parents.

The True Nature of Siblings is known during the distribution of inheritance.

The sincerity of Friends is known during hard times.

True relatives are known when one is far from his Country, lonely or sick.

A Very True Love is known when there is no means of benefit.

And a True believer is known during times of hardship.

In all, life is the teacher itself.

May you grow in wisdom, understanding, patience and faith in God.

26/07/2021

A STABLE MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP

In spite of all attempts to redefine and undermine the institution of marriage, it is heartwarming to see Dolly and her husband enjoying an endearing marriage relationship.

13/06/2021

13/06/2021

13/06/2021

CHRISTIAN INDIE AWARDS 2021 - GOD HAS DONE IT AGAIN!

Dear friends, together we did it! Thank you all for your support. My latest book, TOGETHER FOREVER: 15 SECRETS TO LIFE-LONG MARRIAGE has won the Christian Indie Awards 2021 in the Relationships and Family Category. I give God the glory for His goodness and faithfulness, which never cease to overwhelm me. Please join me in appreciating this awesome God.

The subject of marriage is one that is dear to my heart, and also dear to God’s heart. If there was ever a time to write a book on the subject, it is now. Indeed, the institution of marriage is under serious attack, and I am hoping that this book will play a big part in salvaging some.
The title of the book, TOGETHER FOREVER: 15 SECRETS TO LIFELONG MARRIAGE captures the very essence of this book.
There are many secrets to keeping any relationship together, and it is not possible that any single book can claim the exclusive reserve to contain all the secrets there are in a marriage. However, some very essential secrets that have worked and saved many marriages, including ours, are contained in this book.

It is my hope that this book will be an invaluable resource for keeping many marriage relationships alive and together and helping to minimise the heart aches and social ills that result from broken marriage relationships.

Here are a couple of endorsements, amongst others, of the book:

“Both Monica and I thoroughly enjoyed reading Together Forever, it is a good and interesting read that is both practical and informative, enabling readers to identify how they can face and overcome the issues and challenges that they face within their marriage.
We truly enjoyed reading this book and are very impressed in how good an author you are, the amount of research and detail you must have had to do is truly remarkable.
Monica and I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is either considering marriage or married. Elewechi, has captured the true essence of what builds a happy, stable and loving relationship, which we have experienced within our 46 years of marriage.
Congratulations"
George & Monica, Penshaw, Tyne & Wear, UK

"Together Forever is not just another book on marriage. It comes out of the author’s own experience of 40 years marriage. The book is easy to read, comprehensive, biblical and up to date for the 21st Century. This is for those who are about to embark on marriage and a useful tool for those who want to enhance their marriage relationship. For wedding preparation classes, the chapters could be easily used and adapted".
Ann F., Newcastle, UK

You can order a copy here for yourself or for a friend or family member:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/TOGETHER-FOREVER.../dp/B084Z8F4DT

16/02/2021

When You Don't Have Trust, You Don't Have Anything

Trust is very important for your marriage to survive. If you attempt to cheat on your wife or husband, you'll be ruining your marriage.

Watch this video to find out more

02/02/2021

There's no marriage without problems, but with God on your side, you can ride out your storm. Watch this couple and as they encourage you and teach you how to ride out your storm

31/01/2021

39 ANCIENT WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime .
2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
3. Silence can never be misquoted.
4. If you want what no one has had, you must do what no one has done.
5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.
6. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.
7. Avoid a contentious woman.
8. 3 men to avoid:
a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.
9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
10. Never be yoked to anyone who will not be yoked to God.
11. 3 words that echo peace in a marriage:
a. I love you .
b. I am sorry .
c. Thank you.
12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.
13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure .
14. Deal with anti-marriage dreams.
15. Ma********on is destruction.
16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.
17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.
18. A successful marriage is always a triangle : God, a man and a woman.
19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.
20. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.
21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.
22. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a woman:
a. Fear of God.
b. Wisdom.
c. Discretion (beauty is vanity).
24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show her love excessively - as a rule, women don't run away from where they're pampered.
25. Love is not blind; infatuation and lust are blind.
26. Love puts God first, lust puts s*x first.
27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if it is absent, God is not there.
28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
30. Desperation leads to frustration.
31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
32. Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.
33. It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.
34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.
35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
36. It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing in God to be single.
37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.
38. Do not marry money or property, marry a person.
39. Be presentable.

REMEMBER, THE WORST PLACE AFTER HELL FIRE IS BAD MARRIAGE. THEREFORE, WATCH, THINK AND PRAY BEFORE GOING INTO IT.

By D.K. Olukoya G.O MFM

29/09/2020

41 YEARS OF GOD'S FAITHFULNESS🙌🏽🙌🏽

What shall we say unto the Lord?
All we have to say is “Thank You, Lord.👏🏽
Thank You, Lord;👏🏽
Thank You, Lord, 👏🏽
All we have to say is ‘thank You, Lord”.

This is our story,
This is our song;
Praising our Saviour,
All the day long🎷🎺🎸🥁💃🕺🏼.
This is our story,
This is our song;
Praising our Saviour,
All the day long🎷🎺🎸🥁💃🕺🏼

We are grateful to God for 41years of His faithfulness in our lives.🙌🏽🙌🏽Through all the changing scenes, the ups and the downs; the highs and the lows, the Lord has been there. See how He’s blessed us with amazing children and lavished us with delightful grandchildren. We can never really thank Him enough.

We also want to use this opportunity to thank everyone that has played a part in our journey and helped us along the way in one way or the other. We are grateful to you all.

We are confident that He who began a good work in us will be faithful to complete and perfect it, for His own glory, in the Mighty Name of Jesus. And we believe and are assured that the glory of the latter house will surely be greater than the former, in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🎉🎉🎉🎂🎂🎂🎁🎁🎁🎷🎺🎸🥁💃🕺🏼🧆🥙🍹🍹

IT IS THE LORD'S DOING, AND IT IS MARVELLOUS IN OUR EYES.

Want to discover the secret of staying TOGETHER FOREVER?
Please get your copy of TOGETHER FOREVER: 15 SECRETS TO LIFELONG MARRIAGE:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/TOGETHER-FOREVER.../dp/B084Z8F4DT